So-called \u201csame sex marriage\u201d is the issue of the week. \u00a0The Supreme Court is expected to make a ruling on its constitutionality in the month of June.<\/p>\n
My prediction: \u201csame-sex marriage\u201d will soon become the law of the land.<\/p>\n
My reason for this is simple: Conservatives who claim to favor \u201ctraditional marriage,\u201d \u201cdisbelieve\u201d in \u201csame sex marriage,\u201d and oppose \u201cthe redefining\u201d of marriage have ceded too much ground to their opponents.<\/p>\n
And they have ceded this ground by speaking of traditional <\/em>marriage (as if there was any other kind), their belief <\/em>that marriage is between a man and a woman (as if this was a question of belief), and their opposition to the act of redefining <\/em>marriage (as if it was within anyone\u2019s power to define or redefine marriage).<\/p>\n In short, by way of their arguments (or non-<\/em>arguments) against \u201csame sex marriage,\u201d conservatives actually reinforce the idea\u2014long championed on the left\u2014that institutions are \u201csocial constructs,\u201d artifacts that government, or \u201csociety,\u201d can create and destroy at will.<\/p>\n The problem with this reasoning is that if institutions, like marriage, really have been arbitrarily constructed by government, then there is no reason that they shouldn\u2019t be de<\/em>constructed in the event that Equality or some other ideal demands this course.\u00a0\u00a0 \u00a0<\/p>\n With an eye toward ascending from the mire of confusion in which far too many of us have been wading for far too long, I offer the following comments.<\/p>\n First, homosexuality may be the most moral, most natural, most divine-like activity in which human beings are capable of engaging.\u00a0 No matter. The fact remains that marriage can no more accommodate homosexuals than bachelorhood can accommodate those who are married.<\/p>\n Just as bachelorhood is a state of being that inherently excludes the married, so too is marriage a state of being that inherently excludes homosexuals.\u00a0 Thus, the language of \u201csame sex marriage\u201d is as self-contradictory, as ridiculous, as that of \u201cmarried bachelorhood.\u201d<\/p>\n To put it another way, \u201csame sex marriage\u201d is no marriage at all.\u00a0 \u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n Inseparable from this first point is another: This issue is not now, nor has it ever been, about \u201cthe redefinition\u201d of marriage.\u00a0 It is as impossible for you or I or the Supreme Court to redefine marriage as it would be for any of us to redefine bachelorhood.\u00a0<\/p>\n Human beings invent words, it is true, but our words are pointers, vehicles by which we express and relay concepts or ideas. This is crucial, for internal to each idea is its own logic that makes it the idea that it is.\u00a0 So, for example, whatever word we choose to affix to the concept of a bachelor, the concept of a bachelor has always been and will always be the concept of an unmarried man.\u00a0 Even if there are no bachelors, even if we somehow managed to drop the word \u201cbachelor\u201d from our vocabulary, never to use it again, the logic of the concept once denoted by this word would remain forever in tact: a bachelor could never be anything other than an unmarried man.<\/p>\n The case is much the same with the concept of marriage.\u00a0 The government can choose to allow homosexual unions and endow them with the term \u201cmarriage.\u201d And, in theory, the government can allow married people to regard themselves as \u201cbachelors.\u201d\u00a0 In reality, however, the government can no more allow \u201csame sex marriage\u201d or \u201cmarried bachelorhood\u201d than it can decree that the world started yesterday.<\/p>\n Third, as points one and two make clear, it makes about as much sense to say that one \u201cbelieves\u201d that marriage is between a man and a woman as it does to say that one \u201cbelieves\u201d that only single men should be considered bachelors.\u00a0 Marriage is what it is, an essentially heterosexual union.\u00a0 It is not an object of belief; <\/em>it is an object of knowledge. <\/em>\u00a0<\/p>\n Finally, the supporters of \u201ctraditional marriage\u201d must stop their talk of \u201ctraditional marriage.\u201d\u00a0 Besides lending legitimacy to the proposition that there are <\/em>forms of marriage other than the heterosexual variety, the term \u201ctraditional marriage\u201d is meaningless by reason of redundancy.\u00a0 There is no traditional <\/em>marriage.\u00a0 There is only marriage. \u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\n Like I said, these considerations aside, in all likelihood the government will eventually ascribe the label of \u201cmarriage\u201d to those homosexuals who want for their unions to be recognized as such.\u00a0 An ever growing number of people fail to see why anyone would or should have a problem with this.\u00a0 But there is <\/em>a problem.<\/p>\n Every change, however great or small, is purchased at a cost.\u00a0 The loss of the familiar and the uncertainty regarding the new situation produced by a change are costs common to all changes.\u00a0 Because of this, the prudent have always preferred changes that are small and gradual to those that are grand and transformative.\u00a0<\/p>\n Yet the kind of change in our marital arrangements that the Supreme Court is presently contemplating is a change of the latter kind: never in the history of the world has anything like it been conceived, much less seriously considered.\u00a0 Only fools and liars would have us believe that there won\u2019t be a substantial price to be paid for legalizing \u201csame sex marriage.\u201d\u00a0<\/p>\n Admittedly, I don\u2019t think that marriage will suffer as a consequence of this.\u00a0 Marriage is far more threatened by a hyper-sexualized popular culture, the ease with which divorces are pursued and granted, etc. Still, while marriage may be no worse off as a result of the legalization of \u201csame sex marriage,\u201d our liberty just may be.\u00a0<\/p>\n American liberty<\/em> consists of all of the liberties <\/em>laid out in our Constitution.\u00a0 If any one of these liberties is threatened, the entire system is imperiled.\u00a0 Now, freedom of religion is a fundamental liberty.\u00a0 If it becomes unconstitutional to prevent homosexuals from \u201cmarrying\u201d other homosexuals, then religious organizations that refuse to accommodate homosexuals along these lines may very well become convicted of acting unconstitutionally.\u00a0 Hence, freedom of religion, along with freedom of conscience, will be forever lost.<\/p>\n This is anything but a far-fetched scenario.\u00a0 Consider that the vast majority of the proponents of \u201csame-sex marriage,\u201d and virtually all of its most militant supporters, are located solidly on the left.\u00a0 Then consider that for at least a couple of centuries, leftist revolutionaries and radicals have recognized religion to be the most formidable obstacle to their designs, for the religious insist upon deferring to an authority higher than that of the government.<\/p>\n What better way to weaken religion than to coerce its practitioners to submit to the state?\u00a0 And what better way to coerce its practitioners than by threatening them with, not only legal penalties, but the threat of branding them for acting disreputably?<\/p>\n Thoughtful people, regardless of their religious, political, or sexual orientations, will realize that the issue of \u201csame sex marriage\u201d is not just, and not even primarily, about marriage.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" So-called \u201csame sex marriage\u201d is the issue of the week. \u00a0The Supreme Court is expected to make a ruling on its constitutionality in the month of June. 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