{"id":94,"date":"2011-10-07T04:51:06","date_gmt":"2011-10-07T04:51:06","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/areasontosmile\/?p=94"},"modified":"2011-10-07T04:51:06","modified_gmt":"2011-10-07T04:51:06","slug":"qa-%e2%80%9cmy-boyfriend-keeps-women%e2%80%99s-numbers-in-his-wallet%e2%80%a6%e2%80%9d-video","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/areasontosmile\/2011\/10\/qa-%e2%80%9cmy-boyfriend-keeps-women%e2%80%99s-numbers-in-his-wallet%e2%80%a6%e2%80%9d-video.html","title":{"rendered":"Q&A: \u201cMy boyfriend keeps women\u2019s numbers in his wallet\u2026\u201d (VIDEO)"},"content":{"rendered":"
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When a person shows you who they are...believe them the first time<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

Question submitted via Formspring<\/a>:
\n\u201cMy boyfriend doesn’t listen to me at all especially when it comes to financial matters. I don’t trust me due to past issues and his womanizing. He tends to keep women numbers in his wallet then tells me they were there before he moved in?\u201d<\/p>\n

“When a person shows you who they are, believe them the first time”
\n-Maya Angelou<\/p>\n

Once again, let\u2019s review:
\n1. He doesn\u2019t listen to you
\n2. You appear to be having some sort of financial issues, since why would you be upset that he doesn\u2019t listen when things go well?
\n3. You live together, but apparently not for very long since he believes having just arrived is a cover story.
\n4. You don\u2019t trust you (?) because of \u2018past issues\u2019.
\n5. You called him a womanizer.
\n6. He admits to womanizing (since he didn\u2019t deny collecting the numbers).
\n7. You clearly don\u2019t trust him. Why? You were snooping in his wallet.
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