{"id":74,"date":"2011-10-03T04:03:32","date_gmt":"2011-10-03T04:03:32","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/areasontosmile\/?p=74"},"modified":"2011-10-03T04:08:50","modified_gmt":"2011-10-03T04:08:50","slug":"loving-you-or-thinking-positive","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/areasontosmile\/2011\/10\/loving-you-or-thinking-positive.html","title":{"rendered":"Loving you; Or, thinking positive (VIDEO)"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/areasontosmile\/files\/2011\/10\/positive-self-talk.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-75\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.beliefnet.com\/sites\/304\/2011\/10\/positive-self-talk-300x186.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"186\" \/><\/a>Question submitted via <a title=\"Formspring\" href=\"http:\/\/formspring.me\/bdavewalters\" target=\"_blank\">Formspring<\/a>:<br \/>\n\u201cI read a book about self-hypnosis and i was wondering if you can &#8220;manipulate&#8221; your conscious in order to reach your subconscious. Like, during work I am listening to music, how about I combine my own quotes like &#8220;I am beautiful&#8221; into the music.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>People have sent in questions about using hypnosis to \u2018trick\u2019 or \u2018force\u2019 the mind into doing what you want it to do a few times now, so much so that I made a video discussing this very thing.<\/p>\n<p>In the videos below, you\u2019ll find out:<br \/>\nThe three parts of your mind, and how they function;<br \/>\nWhy and how your mind has access to all the information in the Universe, and to God directly;<br \/>\nHow to create better inner-communication, and a *guided meditation* that will allow you to know the answer to any question<br \/>\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"All About You  with  B. Dave Walters Episode 33 part 1: Mind.mp4\" width=\"500\" height=\"281\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/4XznN49lkU0?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p>A VERY important thing to remember, is the fact that everything lives in language.<br \/>\nWhen you look into the mirror, what do you say to yourself? Do you tell yourself how good you look, or how fat your back side is? Does noticing you need to lose a few pounds motivate you to work out, or does it make you go eat a gallon of ice cream?<\/p>\n<p>You want to pay attention to your inner dialog, and be as nice to yourself as possible. Remember, your subconscious mind is like a 5 year old with a mind like a super computer; it remembers EVERYTHING, and takes it all 100% literally.<\/p>\n<p>Yes, weaving your own affirmations and positive sayings into the music can help messages reach into your subconscious mind, and help the process of planting those new positive seeds. Something that is also especially powerful is to record yourself saying positive things, and play it at night while you sleep. The moments just before you to go bed and right when you wake up are your most psychologically suggestive times, so make sure you go to bed and wake up to happy thoughts, NOT worries!<br \/>\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"All About You  with  B. Dave Walters Episode 33 part 2: Mind\" width=\"500\" height=\"281\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/BnU4qcHJzM8?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p>The ultimate goal is to be in alignment with yourself; if you are playing \u201cI am beautiful\u201d over and over, but every time you look into the mirror you start thinking about how unattractive you are, it won\u2019t work.<br \/>\nYou have to consciously choose to focus on what\u2019s best about you, even while you subconsciously program yourself to actually believe it\u2026does that make sense?<\/p>\n<p>You are great, and I love you!<br \/>\nAnd if you love me back, click subscribe over on the right hand side!<\/p>\n<p>B. Dave Walters<br \/>\nWriter, Life Coach, and Talk Radio Host<\/p>\n<p>Find out more about me:<br \/>\n<a title=\"http:\/\/about.me\/BDaveWalters\" href=\"http:\/\/about.me\/BDaveWalters\" target=\"_blank\">http:\/\/about.me\/BDaveWalters<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Ask me anything:<br \/>\n<a title=\"http:\/\/formspring.me\/BDaveWalters\" href=\"http:\/\/formspring.me\/BDaveWalters\" target=\"_blank\">http:\/\/formspring.me\/BDaveWalters<\/a><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Question submitted via Formspring: \u201cI read a book about self-hypnosis and i was wondering if you can &#8220;manipulate&#8221; your conscious in order to reach your subconscious. 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