{"id":720,"date":"2012-02-10T06:08:29","date_gmt":"2012-02-10T06:08:29","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/areasontosmile\/?p=720"},"modified":"2012-02-10T06:11:06","modified_gmt":"2012-02-10T06:11:06","slug":"flying-eagles-and-pecking-pigeons-or-the-secret-of-success","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/areasontosmile\/2012\/02\/flying-eagles-and-pecking-pigeons-or-the-secret-of-success.html","title":{"rendered":"Flying eagles and pecking pigeons, Or, the secret of success (VIDEO)"},"content":{"rendered":"<figure id=\"attachment_721\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-721\" style=\"width: 257px\" class=\"wp-caption alignright\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.prlog.org\/10198170-acchieve-your-success.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-721\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.beliefnet.com\/sites\/304\/2012\/02\/cb82fa517d51042843877c68caa5311d-257x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"257\" height=\"300\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-721\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">It&#039;s not going to climb itself!<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>\u201cSuccess is the progressive realization of a worthy ideal\u201d -Earl Nightingale<\/p>\n<p>Los Angeles is a wonderland.<br \/>\nActually, Disneyland, the happiest place on earth, is right here!<br \/>\n(OK&#8230;Disneyland is just south of Los Angeles in Anaheim, but we take credit for it.)<\/p>\n<p>For the most part, it is the center of the universe in terms of fame and &#8216;success&#8217;; and if anyone says otherwise we just ignore them!<\/p>\n<p>As I said before I LOVE the fact that people are succeeding and making their dreams come true all around me. In fact, one of the high points of my life is I had a chance to go and visit the Skywalker Ranch, where all 6 Star Wars films were made. And the thing that struck me most about it was the overwhelming sense of peace in the place; it was very clear that every single person working there was the best in the world at what they did, and were living their dream.<\/p>\n<p>In the video below, I give several examples of what real success is, so I&#8217;d like to talk more here about what success is not, and what is keeping you from living the real thing.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center\"><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"All About You with B. Dave Walters Episode 14.1: Success\" width=\"500\" height=\"281\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/VIYVtEA19Qo?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p>So let&#8217;s start with what success is not:<\/p>\n<p>Success is not control over other people.<br \/>\nSuccess is not winning the approval of others.<br \/>\nSuccess is not fame, although fame may come along with it.<br \/>\nSuccess is not power, but power may come along with it, too.<br \/>\nAnd most importantly:<br \/>\nSuccess is NOT just money, although money certainly plays a part.<\/p>\n<p>So, then, what IS success?<br \/>\nSimple: success is a feeling. More specifically, a feeling of fulfillment.<\/p>\n<p>And because it&#8217;s a feeling, you can choose to feel successful\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/features.beliefnet.com\/areasontosmile\/2012\/02\/getting-rid-of-baggage-or-how-to-change-in-an-instant-video.html\" target=\"_blank\">at any time<\/a>\u00a0\u00a0and by extension, you&#8217;ll BE more successful!<\/p>\n<p>I know that may sound too simple, or too good to be true, but I mean it.<br \/>\nConsider, people like Ghandi or Mother Teresa who died with very few worldly possessions, but had a tremendous impact on their world.<\/p>\n<p>Or, the counter point is true: Bill Gates and Warren Buffet have contributed billions of dollars to humanitarian work of all kinds.<\/p>\n<p>So what do these people all have in common? 2 things: following their passion, and service to their fellow human beings.<\/p>\n<p>Because for reasons I explain in the video below, success is doing your best at what it is you&#8217;re doing. TRUE success, is doing your best at your true calling, or life&#8217;s mission.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center\"><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"All About You with B. Dave Walters Episode 14.2: Success\" width=\"500\" height=\"281\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/i_J6rC4MzDc?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p>So assuming you already know what it is that\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/features.beliefnet.com\/areasontosmile\/2011\/09\/getting-rid-of-worry-and-fear-or-knowing-what-you-want-video.html\" target=\"_blank\">you want<\/a>, why aren&#8217;t you pursing it?<\/p>\n<p>Up until now, you&#8217;ve been\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/features.beliefnet.com\/areasontosmile\/2012\/01\/making-sense-of-things-or-lucky-number-13.html\" target=\"_blank\">programmed<\/a>\u00a0\u00a0to lead your life in a certain way. Your culture, your parents, your own background and experiences have all shaped you into the person you are today good, bad, or indifferent.<\/p>\n<p>The sum total of all of your experiences adds up to what has been called your &#8216;self image&#8217;, or how you see yourself.<\/p>\n<p>If you ever find yourself thinking \u201cI can&#8217;t do that, I&#8217;m not that type of person\u201d that is your self-image. Or, if you think something is \u201cjust not for me\u201d, that is your self image talking, too. Actually ANYTHING you do is your self image talking.<\/p>\n<p>So when it comes time to\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/features.beliefnet.com\/areasontosmile\/2012\/02\/getting-rid-of-baggage-or-how-to-change-in-an-instant-video.html\" target=\"_blank\">change<\/a>, you can experience a lot of inner resistance to creating a new and better you.<\/p>\n<p>Maxwell Maltz wrote an excellent book called psycho-cybernetics that deals with this exact thing, and I am sure I&#8217;ll deal with it again more extensively in the near future, but for now I can tell you how to get started.<\/p>\n<p>1.Decide what you\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/features.beliefnet.com\/areasontosmile\/2011\/10\/mastering-the-law-of-attraction-or-creating-what-you-really-want-video.html\" target=\"_blank\">want\u00a0<\/a><br \/>\n2.<a href=\"http:\/\/features.beliefnet.com\/areasontosmile\/2011\/12\/sowing-and-reaping-or-blocking-the-universal-flow.html\" target=\"_blank\">BELIEVE\u00a0<\/a>you can have it<br \/>\n3.Set your goals, make a plan,\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/features.beliefnet.com\/areasontosmile\/2012\/01\/new-year-new-you-2012-or-the-guaranteed-simple-way-to-keep-those-resolutions.html\" target=\"_blank\">get after it<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Now I know that may sound easy, but it really IS that easy.<br \/>\nIf you have trouble, just start a little smaller. If you are having trouble believing you can be a millionaire, set your sights on making $100,000.<br \/>\nIf that&#8217;s too much, set your goal on $1,000, or $100.<\/p>\n<p>Build up small wins, until you have enough confidence to pursue bigger ones.<br \/>\nHave you ever heard the expression \u201cyou can peck with the pigeons, or you can soar with the eagles\u201d?<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s up to you to decide what you are going to make of yourself and this life, so get after it!<\/p>\n<p>What do you think ? Feel free to comment down below!<\/p>\n<p>You are great, and I love you!<\/p>\n<p>And if you love me back, click &#8216;share&#8217; up at the top!<\/p>\n<p>B. 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