{"id":192,"date":"2011-10-30T02:22:09","date_gmt":"2011-10-30T02:22:09","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/areasontosmile\/?p=192"},"modified":"2011-10-30T02:22:09","modified_gmt":"2011-10-30T02:22:09","slug":"how-to-be-mrs-right-or-spiritual-loving-ii-video","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/areasontosmile\/2011\/10\/how-to-be-mrs-right-or-spiritual-loving-ii-video.html","title":{"rendered":"How to BE Mr\/s Right, Or, spiritual loving II (VIDEO)"},"content":{"rendered":"
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It takes two to tango!<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

\u201cA loving heart is the beginning of all knowledge\u201d -Thomas Carlyle<\/p>\n

People say dating is hard in Los Angeles, because of the facades that people put up; but I think dating and relationships can be challenging all over the world.<\/p>\n

One of my most popular articles to date was ‘Spiritual Loving<\/a>‘, my article on how to find the right person. Between that article and the video below, I shared several ways to locate and catch that special someone.<\/p>\n

So for this article, I want to flesh out some of the ideas from those two places, and share some thoughts I’ve had since they posted.<\/p>\n

And one other thing: all of these points apply to a single person who is in the market, and for a person who already has a relationship; since even a good one has room to become great.<\/p>\n

In my\u00a0coaching<\/a>, I often hear people ask me how to ‘make’ someone love them. Or tell me all manner of things the other person has done to them, and yet they keep taking it believing the time will come that the person spontaneously changes. So, then, here is the first point:<\/p>\n

Words lie, actions always tell the truth.<\/p>\n