{"id":566,"date":"2010-12-30T00:00:00","date_gmt":"2010-12-30T00:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/angelsonyourshoulder\/2010\/12\/rose-a-story-of-love-and-courage-1.html"},"modified":"2010-12-30T00:00:00","modified_gmt":"2010-12-30T00:00:00","slug":"rose-a-story-of-love-and-courage-1","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/angelsonyourshoulder\/2010\/12\/rose-a-story-of-love-and-courage-1.html","title":{"rendered":"Rose: a story of love and courage"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"MsoNormal\">This is a beautiful story someone sent me years ago. I have no idea who the author is but I thank them for taking the time to write the story and make it an internet legend. Read it with your heart and allow her spirit to fill you.<\/p>\n<p>Rose<\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><span>The first day of school our professor introduced himself<br \/>\nand challenged us to get to know someone we didn&#8217;t already know. I stood up to look around when a gentle hand touched my shoulder.<\/p>\n<p>I turned around to find a wrinkled, little old lady beaming up at me with a smile that lit up her entire being. She said, &#8220;Hi handsome. My name is Rose. I&#8217;m eighty-seven years old. Can I give you a hug?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>I laughed and enthusiastically responded, &#8220;Of course you may!&#8221; and<br \/>\nshe gave me a giant squeeze.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Why are you in college at such a young, innocent age?&#8221; I asked.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><span><br \/>\nShe jokingly replied, &#8220;I&#8217;m here to meet a rich husband, get married, and<br \/>\nhave a couple of kids&#8230;&#8221;<\/p>\n<p><\/span><span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><!--more--><br \/>\n<span>&#8220;No seriously,&#8221; I asked. I was curious what may have motivated her to<br \/>\nbe<br \/>\ntaking on this challenge at her age.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I always dreamed of having a college education and now I&#8217;m getting<br \/>\none!&#8221; she told me.<\/p>\n<p>After class we walked to the student union building and shared a chocolate<br \/>\nmilkshake.<\/p>\n<p>We became instant friends. Every day for the next three months we would leave class<br \/>\ntogether and talk nonstop. I was always mesmerized listening to this &#8220;time<br \/>\nmachine&#8221; as she shared her wisdom and experience with me.<\/p>\n<p>Over the course of the year, Rose became a campus icon and she easily made<br \/>\nfriends wherever she went.<\/p>\n<p>She loved to dress up and she reveled in the attention bestowed upon her from<br \/>\nthe other students. She was living it up.<\/p>\n<p>At the end of the semester we invited Rose to speak at our football<br \/>\nbanquet.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ll never forget what she taught us. She was introduced and stepped up to<br \/>\nthe podium. As she began to deliver her prepared speech, she dropped her<br \/>\nthree by five cards on the floor.<\/p>\n<p>Frustrated and a little embarrassed she leaned into the microphone and<br \/>\nsimply said, &#8220;I&#8217;m sorry I&#8217;m so jittery. I gave up beer for Lent and this<br \/>\nwhiskey is killing me! I&#8217;ll never get my speech back in order so let me just<br \/>\ntell you what I know.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>As we laughed she cleared her throat and began, &#8220;We do not stop playing<br \/>\nbecause we are old; we grow old because we stop playing.<\/p>\n<p>There are only four secrets to staying young, being happy, and achieving<br \/>\nsuccess. You have to laugh and find humor every day. You&#8217;ve got to have a<br \/>\ndream. When you lose your dreams, you die.<\/p>\n<p>We have so many people walking around who are dead and don&#8217;t even know it!<\/p>\n<p>There is a huge difference between growing older and growing up.<\/p>\n<p>If you are nineteen years old and lie in bed for one full year and don&#8217;t do<br \/>\none productive thing, you will turn twenty years old. If I am eighty-seven<br \/>\nyears old and stay in bed for a year and never do anything I will turn<br \/>\neighty-eight.<\/p>\n<p>Anybody can grow older. That doesn&#8217;t take any talent or ability. The idea<br \/>\nis to grow up by always finding opportunity in change. Have no regrets.<\/p>\n<p>The elderly usually don&#8217;t have regrets for what we did, but rather for<\/span><span style=\"font-family: Geneva;color: black\"><br \/>\n<\/span><span>things we did not do. The only people who fear death are those<br \/>\nwith<br \/>\nregrets.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>She concluded her speech by courageously singing &#8220;The Rose.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>She challenged each of us to study the lyrics and live them out in our<br \/>\ndaily lives.<\/p>\n<p>At the year&#8217;s end Rose finished the college degree she had begun all those<br \/>\nyears ago.<\/p>\n<p>One week after graduation Rose died peacefully in her sleep.<\/p>\n<p>Over two thousand college students attended her funeral in tribute to the<br \/>\nwonderful woman who taught by example that it&#8217;s never too late to be all<br \/>\nyou can possibly be.<\/p>\n<p>When you finish reading this, please send this peaceful word of advice to<br \/>\nyour friends and family, they&#8217;ll really enjoy it!<\/p>\n<p>These words have been passed along in loving memory of ROSE.<\/p>\n<p>REMEMBER, GROWING OLDER IS MANDATORY. GROWING UP IS OPTIONAL.<br \/>\nWe make a Living by what we get, We make a Life by what we give.<\/p>\n<p>God promises a safe landing, not a calm passage.<br \/>\nIf God brings you to it, He will bring you through it.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Good friends are like stars&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;You don&#8217;t always see them, but you<br \/>\nknow they are always there<\/span><\/p>\n<p>With love and aloha,<br \/><a href=\"http:\/\/susangregg.com\/\">Susan<\/a><\/p>\n<p><b>Lyrics to the song &#8216;The Rose&#8217;<\/b><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>This is a beautiful story someone sent me years ago. I have no idea who the author is but I thank them for taking the time to write the story and make it an internet legend. Read it with your heart and allow her spirit to fill you. 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