10/18/2004 3:17:54 PM
Dear Not Controlling...you already know what your answer is...you are waiting for someone to validate what your gut is trying to tell you.
I have been there and please from the bottom of my heart, do not wait....do not think, "oh tomorrow will be a better day," "I'll try harder," "I will love him more," "I will keep a cleaner house," "I will keep the children quiet," " I won't spend money,"...it won't work! He will make you fell like it is all your fault and in the end...you will begin to believe it. Run as fast as you can and don't ever look back. Your children and you are far more important than any man who would treat you this way. Power over another person is WRONG! Please listen to your gut and leave before you have lost years and youth and spirit. Good Luck and God Bless you. Carol