Get the Male Perspective
When I hit bottom after the birth of my second baby, I was lucky enough to see Brooke Shields’ beautiful face on "Oprah" describing exactly how I felt. In her book, and in Kay Redfield Jamison's "An Unquiet Mind" and Tracy Thompson's "The Ghost in the House," I found female companionship, as they articulated what was happening to me. That alone made me less scared.
Luckily, there are also some wonderful books tackling the male perspective on depression. Among them: "I Don't Want to Talk About It: Overcoming the Secret Legacy of Male Depression" by Terrence Real, "Unmasking Male Depression" by Archibald Halt, and, of course, the classic, "Darkness Visible" by William Styron. There are also an array of blogs by men on the topic of depression and mental health. For example, check out "Storied Mind," "Chipur.com," "Knowledge Is Necessity," "Lawyers with Depression," "Midlife-Men.com," "Finding Optimism," and "A Splintered Mind."