Did you make a mistake?
No problem. No surprise. Everyone makes mistakes.
Admit it. Correct it with God’s assistance. Learn from it. Mistake gone. No problem.
Problems arise when we cling tight to OUR way, not God’s way, or fail to exercise our empathy or understanding of others' feelings or needs. Our ego gets in the way, because we are used to protecting our pride or false image. We often think we’re threatened or in danger if we open up and admit we’re not perfect.