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Shane Whalen
This Prayer Circle is Dedicated to my son Shane Whalen Who Passed Away On March 15, 1999 at the Age of 24, & All Other Children


Start a prayer circle for bereaved parents who have lost a child.


There are many of us out there who have lost a child, and it is devastating. It changes the outlook on life, plunges you into a depression, and you think that the feelings and thoughts you have nobody else could possibly relate to. I think a prayer circle for bereaved parents would only benefit us and help us on our journey of grief. This Circle is one of Love, where a Grieving Parent can safely come to for Prayers, and to talk about their feelings.

 
Shaner -10/14/2000
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LOVE2U
4/22/2002 20:39

Dear God, ~ This prayer is for our beloved Tammy and her entire family. Lord, I pray that you will bless Tammy's grandmother and keep your loving arms around her. Give her peace of mind and reveal to her that her family love her and will do everything they can to make sure she is cared for. Father, give the members of this family the strength and wisdom to do what's best concerning this beloved grandmother; even if it means that the decision they have to make is a hard one. Lord, you know that I have been there; both me and my family members. Lord, you gave us the strength and wisdom to put our personal wants aside, and pull together for the sake of our dear loved ones on more than one occasion. Help this family, dear Lord, to do the same. Lord, You know how difficult it can be to do this sometimes. All I'm asking is for You to wrap Your loving arms around this family, Lord, and please, let Tammy know that all of us here love her and we are praying for her grandmother and her entire family. Stay close to them, Lord. I ask these things in Your Son, Jesus' name, Amen


LOVE2U
4/22/2002 22:19

Dear Dovesfromheaven~ (Yvonne), Thank you so much for praying for me. I feel much better, so the prayers really did help. :) I have really missed posting! I pray that all goes well and that you remember to get some much needed rest with all you are doing! :) I know God and you precious son are looking out for you and your entire family as well.:) I just came from your son's memorial site. I left the following prayer there. I will continue praying for you and family, that God will continue giving you precious moments of peace; now, and in the days ahead! :)
Love,
Verna

Dear God in heaven ~ I pray tonight that You will ease the pain in the heart of my dear friend, Yvonne. Father, she is still in the early stages of her grieving, and Lord, I know You understand what it is like to lose a precious son. You loved us so much that You gave Your Son, Jesus, to die so that we would have the right to enter the gates of heaven, and to see our beloved children and other loved ones again someday. Lord, we thank You for loving us so much; to give Your Son, to pay for our sins so that we could someday meet You face to face, and Your Son, Jesus too! :)We love You Lord, and we just can't thank You enough for taking such good care of our precious children for us! What a great family reunion we will have someday! :) Father, I ask that You continue using us in Your service. Give us the strength and the wisdom to love and show compassion for others who are doing their best to deal with the grief which is like no other! Lord, I know You understand and know exactly how each bereaved mom feels. Thank You for giving us those precious moments of peace as we grieve our losses. And, thank You, Lord, for hearing and answering my heartfelt prayer for Yvonne and her precious family. In Your Son, Jesus' name, Amen


eudora
4/23/2002 17:15

To Tammy,My prayers are with you and your family at this time.I pray everything works out for the best for your grandmother.Just give it all to God,he will guide you in the right direction.You are so loved here and i know so many prayers will be going out for you and your loved ones.Trust in our Lord.I love you,sweetie.Barb


shaner
4/23/2002 20:59

Hello my wonderful moms, this is just a test post, Tammy tried to post here tonight, but was unable, due to a technical glitch, hopefully it'll resolve itself and she'll be able to post tomorrow.
Continued prayers to all of you,
Luv Sandy


DEBORAHPOO
4/24/2002 04:57

DEAR LOVE2U,
THANK YOU FOR YOUR PRAYER,SOME DAYS ARE HARDER THAN OTHERS, I TRY TO KEEP REAL BUSY. IT REALLY HARD WHEN I'M HOME BY MYSELF. I KEEP MICHAEL'S PICTURES EVERY WHERE ANS WISH HE WOULD COME WALKING IN THE DOOR CALLING ME LIKE HE USED TO. HISBROTHERS BIRTHDAY IS COMING UP AND ALSO HIS GRADUATION. HOW I WISH HE WHERE HERE WITH US DURING THSES HAPPY TIMES.
AT THE SCHOOL WHERE I WORK I FOUND OUT THAT ONE OF THE CHILDRENS SISTER WAS IN A BAG CAR ACCIDENT AND SHE MAYNOT MAKE IT. SHE HAS A FULL 4 YEAR SCOLARSHIP AT A COLLAGE FOR BASKET BALL AND BECAUSE DRINKING WAS INVOLVED SE MAY NEVER PLAY AGAIN. HOW THE PAIN RETURNED KNOWING WHAT THESE PARENTS ARE GOING THROUGH.
THANK YOU FOR YOUR PRAYER.

DEAR GOD PLEASE GIVE GUIDENCE AND THE STRENGHT TO THSES PARENTS WHO ARE GRIEVING, I ASK THIS IN YOUR NAME . AMEN


DEBORAHPOO
4/24/2002 05:04

DEAR SHANER,
THANK YOU FOR LISTENING, SOME TIMES I WANT TO SCREAM BECAUSE THEY DO'T LIKE TO TALK ABOUT MICHAEL. HE WAS A REAL PERSONAND HE PUT AN IMPACKED ON A LOT OF LIVES WHILE HE WAS HERE FOR A SHORT TIME AND I LOVE TO HEAR BOUT THE THINGS HE DID.. HOW HE MADE PEOPLE SMILE. IT FEELS GOOD. MY YOUNGER SISTER IS COMING AROUND A LITTLE. SHE WAS REAL CLOSE WITH MICHAEL. HER SON AND MINE DID ALOT OF THINGS TOGETHER BECAUSE HE USED TO WATCH HIM FOR HER. MY HUSBAND IS MENTIONING HIS NAME MORE TOO BECAUSE I BRING HIS NAME UP ALOT WHAT EVER WE ARE DOING. IT STILL HURTS ALOT BUT I JUST TAKE DAY FOR DAY.


shaner
4/24/2002 09:02

Hello DEBORAPOO, I'll listen to you anytime, I'm here for you and I can feel your great pain through your words.
Sweetie, you're in a great deal of pain right now, missing your beloved Michael so. I know you'd give anything to see his smiling face come through the door, pick up the phone and hear his wonderful voice again, and feel him hugging you. I know that other people don't feel our pain like we do. When they don't like to talk about our child that has passed away, it puts more hurt already on top of the great hurt that we already have. Yes, Michael was here, he made a big difference in people's lives, and his life is to be remembered and honoured! All of us love it when people tell us how our child made them laugh, smile, or just how they affected their lives. They NEED to be remembered. Unfortunately, some people think that if they talk about our child, or if we bring their name up, it'll cause us more pain, so they don't talk about our child that we've lost, or they change the subject when we bring their name up. They just don't understand, and what you're experiencing is the number one big hurt experienced by a lot of moms after they've lost a child. You can talk about Michael here anytime you want to, we'd love to hear what a special young man he was! He may have only been here for a short while, but I know he made a difference in people's lives as I said, and I know how much you still love him and grieve for his loss. Keep your pictures of Michael close to you, talk about him whether people want to listen or not, and always remember to post here, we all love you and want to help you right now in your tremendous sadness. Heavenly Father, please bring some peace to Deborapoo today, she misses her Michael so much, you above all know her pain, and I know that you're by her side, You'll never leave her as she grieves for her darling son.
Deborapoo, you post back here anytime, we love you and together we can all help each other with our grief, and our pain. I'll always listen to you, and here you can talk about your pain, all of us understand that terrible, biting, hard pain, and the need to talk about our child. Much love and prayers to you,
Luv Sandy


DEBORAHPOO
4/24/2002 17:12

DEAR SHANER,
THANK YOU FOR LISTENING. WILL THE PAIN EVER EASE? I FIND MY SELF THINKING ABOUT MICHAEL ALOT AND I'M VERY QUIET. IS THIS NORMAL? OR IS IT BECAUSE I JUMPED RIGHT BACK INTO WORK AFTER 2 MONTHS BECAUSE I COULDN'T HANDLE BEING HOME, IS IT HITTING ME ALL OVER AGAIN? MY SON MICHAEL HAS A DAUGHTER WHICH SHE WILL BE 4 THE DAY AFTER MY BIRTHDAY AND I HAVE NEVER SEEN HER. YOUR RIGHT I DO WISH I COULD HAVE THAT ONE MORE CHANCE JUST TO SEE HIM, HOLD HIM, TALK TO HIM AND JUST TO TELL HIM I LOVE HIM AGAIN AND HE WOULD RESPOND BACK TO ME. HOW I WISH. NOW I GO TO HIS GRAVE SITE AND TALK TO HIM. I TRY TO IMAGINE WHAT HE WOULD BE DOING RIGHT NOW WITH HIS DAUGHTER AND HOW MUCH TALLER HE WOULD BE. HE LOVED PLAYING WITH THE KIDS ON OR STREET. HE WOULD HAVE THEM ALL IN THE BACK YARD PLAYING BASKETBALL AND KICKBALL. HIS DAD PUT A BASKET BALL COURT IN THE BACK YARD AND IN THE WINTER HE WOULD FILL IT SO THE KIDS COULD GO ICE SKATING ON IT. THE MOMS KNEW WHERE THIER CHILDREN ALWAYS WHERE. HIS FRIENDS WOULD TELL HIM YOUR MOM IS KOOL. THEY USE TO THINK AT FIRST WE WHERE BROTHER AND SISTERS. AND LAUGH WHEN HE WOULD SAY NO THATS MY MOM. AND THEY WOULD SAY KOOL MOM. HOW I MISS THOSE DAYS. THANK YOU SANDY AND I'LL BE BACK


DEBORAHPOO
4/24/2002 17:25

DEAR SUNSHINE3731,
I'M SO VERY SORRY ABOUT THE LOSS OF YOUR STEPHANIE MARIE. I ALSO LOST MY SON 2 DAYS AFTER HIS 19TH BIRTHDAY IN AUG. 2000 AND I CAN FEEL THE PAIN WITH YOU. I HAVE FOUND THAT ALOT OF PEOPLE WILL TALK TO YOU AND HELP YOU GET THROUGH THIS AWFUL TIME YOU ARE GOING THROUGH AND YOU ARE NOT ALONE SO PLEASE COME BACK AND TALK TO US SO WE MAY HELP YOU. MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU AND YOUR FAMILY.


shaner
4/24/2002 19:13

Hello DEBORAPOO, as I said sweetie, I'll always listen to you. Will the pain ever ease? I can only tell you that it won't in time be as harsh, but the most I myself can say, after 3 years for myself, is that you learn how to live with your grief. It will lessen, and with me, at least, it's settled into a quiet sadness that I live with. Some days are good days, when I can laugh and smile at things my Shane did, other days are bad, when my heart aches for him so, because I miss him with all my heart. We're always going to miss our children, they were a big part of us, and when they died, a part of us died too and went with them.
In time your pain won't be as hard, but you've just lost your Michael two years ago, and that stage of grief can be the hardest, because the shock has worn off, and the reality of his loss has set in. Maybe by jumping so quickly back into work, you didn't give yourself enough time to grieve for him, and now it's coming out very strongly. This is just my take, only you know what's best for yourself and how to handle your grief.
Michael sounds like a wonderful young man, and he sure loved sports and playing with his friends! He sounds like the type of person everyone liked to be around, laughing and full of fun, a joy for life! You and he had a special relationship, just like my Shane and I did, people would think we were friends too! And we are, just like you are with your Michael!
I truly pray that you will be able to see your grandaughter, seeing her will help you to see your Michael. Do you live too far away from her? She is a valuable link to your beloved son. Talk to Michael, visit his gravesite, I KNOW he can hear you, and it helps to reconnect with him, and let some of your pain out. He sounds so wonderful, so full of life, I bet he's got a game going up in Heaven, :). Remember that the love bond that you share with Michael doesn't die, love is Eternal, and he's still watching over his much loved mom! He's now your very own special Angel, and he's probably around you more than you think. I'm so glad you wrote back, and told me some things about your precious Michael, and how you're feeling, you can do that anytime, as I said, I'll ALWAYS listen.
I know so much of the pain you're experiencing, and you need a place to let that pain out, and here you can do it, there's only love and compassion at this Circle. My continued prayers to you, and please post whenever you feel like it, much love and prayers to you,
Luv Sandy


NOAHSCHILD
4/25/2002 15:58

DEAR SHANER, JUST ASHORT NOTE TO LET YOU KNOW THAT GOD LOVES US ALL, AND HE LOVED SHANE BEST. I ALSO LOST MY SON AT THE AGE OF 24, AND YES IT IS ONE OF THE HARDEST THING I HAVE EVER FACED BUT BECAUSE I LOVE THE LORD JESUS FIRST HE MADE A WAY FOR ME OUT OF THE DARKNESS. MY HEART AND PRAYERS GO OUT TO YOU AND YOUR FAMILY. REMEMBER GOD LOVES YOU AND SO DO I


NOAHSCHILD
4/25/2002 15:58

DEAR SHANER, JUST ASHORT NOTE TO LET YOU KNOW THAT GOD LOVES US ALL, AND HE LOVED SHANE BEST. I ALSO LOST MY SON AT THE AGE OF 24, AND YES IT IS ONE OF THE HARDEST THING I HAVE EVER FACED BUT BECAUSE I LOVE THE LORD JESUS FIRST HE MADE A WAY FOR ME OUT OF THE DARKNESS. MY HEART AND PRAYERS GO OUT TO YOU AND YOUR FAMILY. REMEMBER GOD LOVES YOU AND SO DO I


NOAHSCHILD
4/25/2002 15:58

DEAR SHANER, JUST ASHORT NOTE TO LET YOU KNOW THAT GOD LOVES US ALL, AND HE LOVED SHANE BEST. I ALSO LOST MY SON AT THE AGE OF 24, AND YES IT IS ONE OF THE HARDEST THING I HAVE EVER FACED BUT BECAUSE I LOVE THE LORD JESUS FIRST HE MADE A WAY FOR ME OUT OF THE DARKNESS. MY HEART AND PRAYERS GO OUT TO YOU AND YOUR FAMILY. REMEMBER GOD LOVES YOU AND SO DO I


NOAHSCHILD
4/25/2002 15:58

DEAR SHANER, JUST ASHORT NOTE TO LET YOU KNOW THAT GOD LOVES US ALL, AND HE LOVED SHANE BEST. I ALSO LOST MY SON AT THE AGE OF 24, AND YES IT IS ONE OF THE HARDEST THING I HAVE EVER FACED BUT BECAUSE I LOVE THE LORD JESUS FIRST HE MADE A WAY FOR ME OUT OF THE DARKNESS. MY HEART AND PRAYERS GO OUT TO YOU AND YOUR FAMILY. REMEMBER GOD LOVES YOU AND SO DO I


NOAHSCHILD
4/25/2002 15:59

DEAR SHANER, JUST ASHORT NOTE TO LET YOU KNOW THAT GOD LOVES US ALL, AND HE LOVED SHANE BEST. I ALSO LOST MY SON AT THE AGE OF 24, AND YES IT IS ONE OF THE HARDEST THING I HAVE EVER FACED BUT BECAUSE I LOVE THE LORD JESUS FIRST HE MADE A WAY FOR ME OUT OF THE DARKNESS. MY HEART AND PRAYERS GO OUT TO YOU AND YOUR FAMILY. REMEMBER GOD LOVES YOU AND SO DO I. NOAHSCHILD


deborahpoo
4/25/2002 16:47

DEAR SHANER,
THANK YOU AGAIN. YOUR RIGHT IT DOES HURT ALOT. AT WORK THE OTHER TEACHERS ASK ME EVERY DAY HOW I'M DOING. THEY SAY THEY COULD NEVER DO IT. SOME DAYS I DON'T KNOW HOW I'M DOING IT EITHER. WHEN I GO TO WORK IN THE MORNING I HAVE TO DRIVE RIGHT BUY THE HOSPITAL AND TO COME HOME. SOME DAYS I LOOK FOR THE WINDOW WHERE THE ROOM WAS WHERE HE WAS. AND IF AN AMBULANCE COMES BUY I GET SCARED. I WANT TO CRY.
MICHAEL'S DAUGHTER ONLY LIVES ABOUT 5 MIN. AWAY FROM ME. BUT MICHAEL AND THE MOTHER WERENT ON REAL GOOD TERMS BUT THEY WERE WORKING ON IT. I HAVE TRIED TO GET HER TO BRING SKYLA (MICHAEL'S DAUGHTERS NAME) OVER BUT SHE HAD SOMETHING COME UP SO IT NEVER HAS HAPPENED. SHE ALSO WONT TALK TO ME ON THE PHONE. SOME DAY IT WILL HAPPEN AND WHEN THAT DAY COMES I CAN'T WAIT TO TELL HER ABOUT HER DADDY. THANK YOU FOR YOUR PRAYERS. I REALLY NEED THEM RIGHT NOW. LUV DEBBY


shaner
4/25/2002 19:16

Hello NOAHSCHILD, your short note meant all the world to me, thank you for your kind, loving post. I'm so sorry that you also lost your son, the same age as my Shane. My heart and prayers go out to you. Yes, God loves us, and when it gets too hard, and the pain is pressing down hard on you, He always stays by my side and helps see me through. I wouldn't have made it this far without His love, the Lord does make a way for us out of the darkness. God loves you too, and so do I, my thoughts and prayers are with you, thank you for writing,
Luv Sandy


shaner
4/25/2002 19:30

Hello Deborapoo, yes, some days are what I call 'valley days', when our grief has us down in the valley, the one of tears. You get up in the morning, put one foot in front of the other, and go through the motions of living that day, but inside your heart is breaking, and your mind is one hundred percent on your child. Thankfully, we have good days too, when we can remember all the good times we shared with our child, and even smile or laugh. I know what you mean about driving by the hospital and looking up at the room Michael was in, how some days you just can't do it. I am the same way, some days I just can't bear to look at his favourite stores, or where he worked, or the hospital itself, where they tried to revive him, and where we cried over his body. All these things bring back harsh memories for us. Then other days, I can drive by them and it doesn't bother me as much. I'm so sorry that you and your grandaughter's mom don't get along, I'll pray very hard that she comes around and that you can see your grandaughter, who is half Michael, I know it would help to ease your heart so much if you could have a relationship with her. She needs you just as much as you need her, she has to grow up knowing about her father. She is a precious link to you, and her much loved dad. I'll storm Heaven with prayers for you, that this reunion will come about. My continued prayers and love for you, Debby, I believe very strongly in the power of prayer, and I know that they will pull you through. God bless you, sweetie, and love and prayers to you,
Luv Sandy


DEBORAHPOO
4/26/2002 05:02

HI SHANER, THANK YOU FOR LETTING ME SHARE MY THOUGHTS AND HOW I HAVE BEEN FEELING. I REALLY DON'T HAVE ANY ONE TO TALK TO BECAUSE THEY ALL GET UPSET OR I DO. I'M VERY THANKFUL THAT I WAS WITH MY SON FOR THREE HRS THE DAY OF THE ACCIDENT. HE HELPED ME MOVE MY TEACHIN MATERIAL TO ANOTHER SCHOOL FOR ME THEN I BROUGHT HIM TO MY SISTERS TO WATCH HER SON AND THE NEXT THING I KNEW I RECIED THE PHONE CALL FROM HER AND SHE WAS AT THE HOSPITAL. I HAVEN'T BEEN ABLE TO GO ON THE RODE WHERE THE ACCIDENT HAPPENED SINCE THAT DAY.7/29/00. I TAKE THE LONG WAY TO GO TO MY MOMS. IT JUST HURTS KNOWING THIS WAS THE LAST THING HE HAD SEEN BEFORETHE ACCIDENT. MICHAEL WAS THE 3RD ONE TO DIE ON THIS RODE AND SINCE THEN THERE HAVE BEEN 5 MORE. THE 1ST. ONE WAS MY BEST FRIENDS BROTHER-N LAW AND HIS WIFE.THEN MICHAEL AND THEN AFRAID O MICHAEL'S 3 MONTHS LATER AND THEN A MAN WHO WAS DRIVING CRAZY WITH POLICE CHASING HIM AND THEN 4 YOUNG PEOPLE WHO WHERE SPEEDING AND DIDN'T MAKE THE CORNER AND HIT ANOTHER CAR. ALL OF THESE DEATHS WHERE WITH IN 3 YEARS AND NOTHEN HAS BEEN DONE ABOUT THE RODE YET... I ASK MY SELF WHY MY MICHAEL BECAUSE HE HAD SO MUCH LOVE AND HE WAS A GOOD YOUNG MAN. I STARTED A PRAYER CIRCLE TO HELP ME ON MY REAL HARD DAYS. THANK YOU FOR THE PRAYERS THEY HAVE BROUGHT ME SOME COMFORT. AT LEAST I CAN TALK ABOUT MICHAEL HERE AND NO ONE WILL GET UPSET. IT FEELS GOOD. GOD BLESS YOU FOR UNDERSTANDING MY PAIN. LOVE DEBBY


dovesfromheaven
4/26/2002 08:36

Dear Deborahpoo,
I am so sorry for your loss of your sweet son Michael. I know the hurt and pain you are going through. I too lost my 24 yr old son Joseph on Nov. 20th,1999 to a single car accident. It was the most devastating and darkest time of my life and that of our whole family. It does help to share your feelings with those who understand. Many do not know what we go through with this kind of loss. It's different than any other. But please know that with the help of the Lord Jesus and others who are praying for you, you will get through it one day at a time. It will never leave you but you will learn to live with it in your own way. God Bless you for coming here and posting what has happened to you and your family. Your husband will come around. They deal with their grief differently. My husband was afraid to pray for his kids after Joe died because he was praying for him before he got killed. He just didn't understand why! I didn't either, but God has revealed some things to me about Joe. We will never completely understand and if we knew everything I don't know if we could handle it. But anyway, I wanted to tell you that I continued to pray for my husband even though I was in my own grief and having a difficult time myself, I was very concerned about him that he just didn't care about life anymore. It took 2 years for him to come around (this all happened shortly after 9/11). Now we pray together and are reading the Bible through together. God is so good and He is healing our broken hearts of our most devastating loss of our son. I'm not saying that we don't have difficult days or "valley days" because we do. But our pain is lessoning some as time moves on. I believe that prayer is the most powerful tool we have. We will never forget our beautiful children. They mean so much to us. I feel more love for Joseph now in death than I ever did in life. I too wish I could talk to him and hug him and kiss him again. I miss him so. You and your family are in my prayers Debby.
Dear Lord Jesus, I ask you to hold Debby close to You and reveal to her how much You love her. Let her know in some way that You are with her in her grief. Help her Lord to come to You always for her deepest needs. Bless her husband and other son and grandchild too. Wrap your loving arms around each of them and give them Your comfort and peace that passes all understanding. In Jesus Name, Amen. God Bless you Debby!
Love, Yvonne<><


dovesfromheaven
4/26/2002 08:50

Dear Sandy (Shaner),
How are you doing? I hope you are doing ok. I miss not being able to post as often as I'd like because of my busy schedule right now, but I do read every post everyday so as not to get behind. I'm doing ok and getting through one day at a time, I guess that's all we can do huh? Your words to other Moms are also much of a comfort to me as I read what you so lovingly write to them. You are so gifted in ministering to others and I want to thank you and The Lord for that! May God's Blessing continue to be upon you always! Dear Lord, I ask you to be with Sandy each day as she remembers her beloved Shane. Help her to give her grief and despair over to You every day. Give her Your peace and comfort in her 'Heart' today and always and let her feel Your presence with her. In Jesus Name, Amen. God Bless you Sandy!
Love, Yvonne<><


dovesfromheaven
4/26/2002 09:03

Dear Verna (Love2U),
Hello and how are you Verna? I hope you are doing better. I think of you often and wonder how your health is coming along? I want to thank you for the beautiful prayer that you posted here and at Joseph's memorial sight. It meant so much to me and then to get the double post (double blessings!!!) You are truly gifted also in misistering your kind thoughts and prayers for others. I will continue praying for you and the healing of your heart for your loss of your sweet daughter Diane.
Dear Lord Jesus, I ask You to bring good health to Verna's body and also to continue the healing in her heart of her loss of her sweet Diane. Give her Your peace and comfort that only You can give today and always. Thank You Lord for Verna and all that she is to others here at this loving prayer circle of grieving Moms. In Jesus Name, Amen. God Bless you Verna!
Love, Yvonne<><


Babbs
4/26/2002 09:33

Hello to all of my friends here in the circle and even to some of the newcomers since I last posted. You are all very special people here in this circle to be able to comfort others even when your own pain is so great!!! I, too believe that helping others is a good way to help your own healing process. It can take you out of your own grief as well. I don't post very often because I'm always trying to stay busy and keep my mind occupied with other things because the pain is still so great at times. However, I think of ya'll(southern slang) alot and continue to feel your grief also. I hope God brings peace to all of you and your families so you can build your lives again. I'm trying to find a new job also and it hasn't been an easy task. Thankyou to Sandi and Tammy for all your kind thoughts that you have posted at Jason's memorial site recently. Verna and Barb, my love to you too! You are all so dear to me! We miss Jason so much! And I know you all can understand. It helps to know you care! I care so much about all of you and the sadness you all feel. I pray that you can find some peace and great comfort that others are praying for you and that they will not forget your loved ones. Love to all, Barbara


shaner
4/26/2002 12:09

Hello Babbs, (Barbara), I'm so happy to see you posting again, we've missed you!
Sometimes it helps to keep busy, takes your mind off of your grief for a while, although I know that the pain of losing your son is always with you. Yes, giving back of yourself is very good for your own grieving, it's a way of helping to release your own pain, in a very positive, loving way and I know it's helped me tremendously! A new job Barbara, that's exciting, I pray that the right one comes along for you very quickly. I know how much you still miss your Jason, and how painful it is right now, so I hope our prayers and our posts at his memorial site have brought you some comfort, all of us know just how hard that pain can be at times. The pictures of him are so beautiful at his site! We do care, Barbara, together and with prayer, all of us will come to a better place in our grief. Prayers and love to you,
Luv Sandy

 
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