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shaner ,I lost my daughter,she was 24,her name was Natasha.She had a brain tumor,I donated her lungs,kidneys,hr heart!She saved 4 lives!Through her death I gave llives!This was a very hard decision to make!God gave me a blession,I had to give back!All of us feels the pain,God is the only one who can help!I pray for your healing!Just try to remember our children was never ours!God blessed us for the time we had together!We will be with them one day!I am here for all who needs me!I pray we can help each other,God has brought us together we can be a blessing to each other!God bless all of us,amen !!!

SPECIAL DATES LIST FOR MAY:
Jennifer: (jhdanner): Aimee Nicole May 1, 1993(HD)
Susan (stwiny;cagermane): Alex May 8, 2003(HD)
Jane (jpot): Elizabeth May 18, 1979(BD)--July 14, 1979(HD)
Sandy (shaner): Shane May 28, 1974(BD)

Hello, my name is Melanee and this is my first entry. I lost my son Caleb May 30th of 2007. He died in a motorcycle wreck on his way to his fireman training class. He worked with my husband at AT&T. He was 21. I am so lost with my life and who I am anymore. I feel so incomplete. I miss him so much and I cannot to this day believe he is gone. I know that God does not make mistakes but this pain in my soul is so deep that I cannot grieve. Please pray for my family, I have a 18 year old daughter named Hannah and my husbands name is Derek. I would love to correspond with other parents who are experiencing this terrible loss. Thank you for your prayers.

Hello Melanee,
My heart goes out to you and your family. I know all to well the pain as well as the heartache you are dealing with. You are still in the gut wrenching stage of 24-7; it's with you all the time. You came to the right place, we will all pray for you as well as pray with you. I honestly don't know what I would have done if it hadn't been for this prayer circle.
Here is my e-mail if you want to just talk-- astarte1260@yahoo.com.
Please post again we do care.
Love and (((((HUGS)))))
Anita

As there are many new entries, I have tried to update my special dates list.
Using Format:
Your name (Sitename) Childs name, Date ( HD Heaven date- BD Birthdate )
I will post the whole year at this time and will you please check to make sure I have your special dates listed right. If I do not have you, please let me know. I figure the Heaven date and their birthdays are the extra hard ones that need extra prayers. God bless, Chris

Bless you, Jennifer and your Aimee Nicole on this special day. Time lessens our pain but still it weighs heavy on our heart. Chris

Format:
Your name (Sitename) Childs name, Date ( HD Heaven date- BD Birthdate )

SPECIAL DATES LIST FOR JANUARY:
Susan (stwiny): Alex Jan. 2, 1983 (BD)
Charlene (havelost4): (granddaughter) Casey Marie Jan. 7, 1992 (BD)
Connie (connienevada): Derrick Jan. 18, 2006 (HD)
(LindaE) Jan 24, 2007 (HD) 1970 (BD)
Barbara (babbs): Jason Jan. 28, 2001 (HD)

SPECIAL DATES LIST FOR FEBRUARY:
Anita (astarte1225): Kimberly Feb. 9, 1980(BD)
(Azna): Deirdra Feb 19, 1992 (BD) & (HD)
Donna (arqt): Marcus Feb.20, 2002(HD)
Barbie (momcandoit): Garry Feb. 22, 2005 (HD)
Anita (astarte1225): Joshua Feb. 24, 2006 (HD)
Charlene (havelost4): (grandson) Baby boy Feb. 25, 1989(BD)

SPECIAL DATES LIST FOR MARCH:
Lisa (LisaLou862): Aaron Mar. 2, 1983 (BD)
Yvonne (dovesfromheaven): Joseph (Joe) Mar. 7, 1975 (BD)
Cindy (cindys1021): Kristina Mar. 15, 2001 (HD)
Sandy (shaner): Shane Mar.15, 1999 (HD)
(kagan) Kagan Raylynn Price Mar. 16, 04 (BD)
Charlene: (granddaughter) Carey Grace Mar. 18, 1994 (BD)
Kathy (KPETERSEN): Wes Mar. 25, 1982 (BD)
Alexandra (mis4mary): Kristian Mar. 26, 1980(BD)
Charlene: (havelost4): (grandson) Michael Mar. 27, 1989 (BD & HD)

SPECIAL DATES LIST FOR APRIL:
Barb (Eudora): Carol Ann April 2, 1999 (HD)
Cindy (cindys1021): Kristina (Krissy) April 6, 1980 (BD)
Donna April 29, 1979 (BD)

SPECIAL DATES LIST FOR MAY:
Jennifer: (jhdanner): Aimee Nicole May 1, 1993 (HD)
Donna May 6, 2002 (HD)
Susan (stwiny;cagermane): Alex May 8, 2003 (HD)
Jane (jpot): Elizabeth May 18, 1979(BD)--July 14, 1979 (HD)
Sandy (shaner): Shane May 28, 1974 (BD)
Melanee (My Caleb) Caleb May 30th 2007 (HD) 1986 (BD)


SPECIAL DATES LIST FOR JUNE:
Susan (missingemily): June 2006 (HD) (1991 BD)
Kay: Joshua June 12, 1982 (BD)
Kay: Joshua June 15, 2005 (HD)

SPECIAL DATES LIST FOR JULY:
Sue (sue64) Gary July 1, 2004 (HD)
Jane (jpot): Elizabeth July 14, 1979 (HD)
(BabyJay14) Jason W Smith 07/06/93 (BD)
Marci: Sean-Michael July 15, 1985 (BD)
Barb (Eudora): Carol Ann July 20, 1963 (BD)
Joyce(sja): Daryl July 23, 1985 (BD)
Anita (astarte1225): Joshua July 28, 1983 (BD)

SPECIAL DATES LIST FOR AUGUST:
Marci: Sean-Michael Aug. 9, 2003 (HD)
Kathy (KPETERSEN): Wes Aug 11, 2005 (HD)
Deb (deborahpoo): Michael Aug 12,1981 (BD)
Deb (deborahpoo): Michael Aug 14, 2000 (HD)
Phyllis (prayerbunny): Rhonda Aug 15, 1965 (BD)
Selva (selvam): Solange Aug. 15, 2002 (HD)
Verna (love2u): Diane Aug. 16, 1960 (BD)
Sarah Kay (lktigergirl9406) Gabriella Hope- August 24, 2007 (HD)
Yvonne: Joseph (Joe) Aug. 19, 1975 (BD)
Verna (love2u): Diane Aug. 31, 1996 (HD)



SPECIAL DATES LIST FOR SEPTEMBER:
Joyce (Alpal) Allen Sept 1, 2007 (HD)
Connie (connienevada): Derrick Sept 2 (BD)
Phyllis (prayerbunny): Rhonda Sept 3, 2005 (HD)
(kejowise): CHAUNCEY Sept 4, 05 (HD)
Sarah kay (lktigergirl9406) Gabriella Hope- September 4th 2006 (BD)
Chris (smile713): Stephanie-Sept 24, 1982 (BD)
Chris (smile713): Stephanie-Sept 25, 2003 (HD)
Lisa: Aaron Sept. 26, 2002 (HD)
Alexandra (miss4mary): Kristian Sept 29, 2003 (HD)
Phyllis (prayerbunny): Nikki Sept 29, 2005 (HD)



SPECIAL DATES LIST FOR OCTOBER:
(eaglenest61) we lost our 3 children Brad, Samantha, and Chris- Oct. 6 2007 (HD)
Joyce(sja): Daryl -Oct. 16, 2006 (HD)
Lee Ann (lask): Ryan Oct. 19, 1982(BD)
(kagan) Kagan Raylynn Price Oct 19, 07 (HD)

SPECIAL DATES LIST FOR NOVEMBER:
Lee Ann (lask): Ryan Nov. 5, 2005 (HD)
Sue: Gary Nov. 11, 1985 (BD)
Imelda: Shane Nov. 17, 2004 (HD)
Yvonne (dovesffromheaven): Joseph (Joe) Nov. 20, 1999 (HD)
(BabyJay14) Jason W Smith Nov 29,2007 (HD)

SPECIAL DATES LIST FOR DECEMBER:
Charlene (havelost4): (granddaughters) Casey Marie & Carey Grace Dec. 1, 2004 (HD)
Selva (selvam): Solange Dec. 7, 1981 (BD)
Anita (astarte1225): Kimberly Dec. 7, 1998 (HD)
Donna (arqt): Marcus Dec. 12, 2001 (BD)
Jennifer (jhdanner): Aimee Nichole Dec. 20, 1992 (BD)
Barbie (momcandoit): Garry Dec. 29, 1974 (BD)

Annie (Weary23) 3 children
(Nitin24) Nitin 24th BD, HD

Melanee, my heart goes out to you. I lost my 21 yr. old son in a motorcycle accident in October, 2006. Time, faith, family, and friends all help, but your Caleb, and my Daryl, will always be in our hearts. For me, the pain is mostly gone, but the emptiness will always be there, I think. I will hold you in my heart. Joyce

I have not posted here in quite a while, and I have noticed that we have some new entries,Allow me to pray for all. Dear Heavenly Father we come before you with Prayer for those who have lost their children, Praise for those of us you have seen thru these troubling time and Thanksgiving for today that we all can find strength in you. You are the tru healer of our souls and we give thanks to you. Amen Alpal

On May 11th. let's remember all of the mother's who have lost a child. For whom this day is another year without *+them+*

Let's "stand beside them" at their child's graveside.

Say nothing.

Offer no homilies.

No sentiments.

No remarks; banal or lofty.

Nothing. Not today. Today is Mother's Day.

To all my dear Angel sisters. I am so sorry for being away for such a long time, I have been working long hours, and had computer problems also, but I never forget about you all. My heart and prayers are always with you. Tomorrow will be a very hard day on all of us, another Mother's Day without our children, may God give us strenght and Peace to go through another Special day, and know that our children are very close to us everyday, we can not see them but they see us. My prayers are with you, remember a Mother's love is Eternal, we will be together with our children again, and this time FOREVER. My love to all. Selva

My thoughts and prayers are with each of you as we go through Mother's day without our child( or children ). I love you all, Anita







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Hope you all made it through Mother's day--not a favorite of mine, to be sure. But this morning when I went outside, I found a gift from my Daryl. When daryl was 12, he planted a grapefruit tree that was given to him by his grandpa. The year daryl died, the tree produced 542 grapefruit. This past year, there were only 200 or so, and we picked all that we could reach;leaving a dozen or so on the top. This morning, under the tree, was a ripe grapefruit. I'm thinking daryl knocked it off for me. So, even on this bittersweet day, he made me smile. Love to all of you, with a prayer for the hurt to lessen. Joyce

I lost my son March 30, 2008, it's my first Mother's Day without him. He was only 29 yrs old, never married, was the best son a mother could have. My life is so empty now, I feel lost without him. I know he is in God's hands and I know he's enjoying God's presence but yet I still hurt, Please pray so God can take this hurt away. It's so hard to adjust living by myself now for the first time in 30 yrs. They are days I say to myself it's a bad dream and I'll wake up and see him. But my truth is NO he's ot around and my life will continue being empty. I need to feel alive again and be able to look into the future and be happy with all God has given me.

Father in Heaven please send your comfort and love to Shanes family. Please help them heal. In Jesus name I pray, Amen

I TOO HAVE DEALT WITH THE LOSS OF A CHILD MY ONLY DAUGHTER. SHE DIED AT BIRTH AND IT WAS VERY DEVISTATING. I HAD NEVER FELT SUCH PAIN OR EMPTINESS IN MY HEART. I TURNED TO DRUGS JUST SO I WOULD COULDNT FEEL THE PAIN AND I LOST ALL OF MY CHILDREN BECAUSE OF IT. NOW I AM CLEAN AND STILL STRUGGLING TO GET MY KIDS BACK. I HAVE TAKEN ALL OF THIS OFF MY SHOULDERS AND ASKED GOD TO TAKE IT. THINGS HAVE GOTTEN BETTER BUT THE EVERYDAY STRUGGLE OF DEALING WITH THE FACT THAT I CANNOT SEE MY BOYS HANDSOME FACES OR TUCK THEM INTO BED EVERYDAY OR TELL THEM I LOVE THEM EVERYDAY. IT HURTS AND I ASK GOD EVERYDAY TO HELP ME DEAL WITH THE PAIN.
I AM GOING TO BRING THEM HOME IT IS JUST GOING TO TAKE SOME TIME.

Suffering the lost of a loved one isn't easy to let go of. Surrounded by people who are still feeling the hurt when they just heard the news making you wish that God could just turn back the hands of time to spare them longer. For we all don't know the purpose of them leaving but we all know that God has his masterplan for them till we all join them once more in that place call Heaven.

Loosing someone gives you the opportunity to Love God and praise him even more because we don't know if we're promised tomorrow. Never lose Faith at all, it will only make things worst in life so we all have to remember our Father witch is in Heaven. God loves us and the ones that we've lost along the way so keep that in your hearts and pray that the lord will lead you on each day reminising about the good old times.

It will bring you Joy, Peace and Happiness to know they're safe now, in God's Hands...

May the arms of an angel which God will dispatch from the heavens above surround you all and bring comfort during this time forth and for evermore...

I remember a statement made by John Walsh many years ago when he lost his beautiful son Adam..They asked "John when do you think the greif will be over?" He stated"I will greive for my child until the day I lay in my grave."
That was a very profound statement for me as a mother because I had lost my youngest son many years prior and in 1995 lost my oldest son to long enduring Cereble palsey.
I knew as an already greiving mother the pain was just too much to endure..
So I prayed, I prayed alot. for peace, for respite from the emotional and physical pain in which consumed my every part of my soul...At Joshuas funeral A dear friend whispered in my ear...Shawna let the breath of God blow upon you in the darkest moments...
Let the breath of God blow upon you .. it is a sentence i have carried with me ever since...
I take it one day at a time, appriciating simple breath, listening, looking for the signs of Gods love all around me...Some days the fog as some say is too consuming to see but others i can see beauty of life and love so very deep...
It is not in the normal realm of lifes pattern (journey) so to speak for our children to die first, although if you have faith and believe me i struggled when my youngest died to have any such faith , but if you remain strong in only that it will carry you through.. just remember Jesus crys every second of every day with us.. and carrys us through the hardest parts of our humanistic journey.. I pray this helps in some small way..God be with you and may the angels forever fly by your side...frenchysha

In just three short months my son will be gone for 1 year. Wow I am amazed at the love God has shown to me, all of his promises he has held to them, each day it becomes a little less painful, but what intricacey God has made in us in that we never forget the beauty of a child, or the joy and blessings that children bring to us. Father I lift each of these mothers up today that you will touch each life and bring renewed joy and love. Father those who have recently lost that child I pray that you will hold them near to your heart and help them as they begin the healing process. There is no one greater than you Father and I thank you for your renewed love each day.

Dear God, Bless each one of us that has lost a child. God allowed me to be with my daughter for 9 months and then chose to take her to heaven to live in peace. I look forward to the day that I will join her. Allow us to continue to be strong & faithful. Give us courage to witness to others of the Love of your Son Jesus Christ. Amen

I too can identify with all of you in the loss of a child. My son died at 7mths old of accidental drowning. This i have never shared with anyone other than family. i was at home with him when he died. I have had a very, very hard time living with myself over the past 31yrs. I still have nightmares about him and i never stop missing him. John was our only son. My relationship with my husband and everyone has never been the same. I have tried to give it all over to God but i have a still have a hard time not blaming myself. all of you are in my prayers because i do have 3 beautiful daughters and 8 grandchildren to still thank God for.

Dear Shaner,
i shall pray for your beloved child.I used the expression at one time. I lost my son, 25, daughter 2 days, old.

After many tears, tears, tears. and staying in my bible reading sometimes now able to see for my tears, Praying and tears,couldn't finish many prayers.
I repeately mummered Have mercy, Have mercy, help me to accept thease deaths.
Their were times when I felt nothing. Then one day Irealized that while I was asking for the mercy of God in my sorrow. I realized that each time i said have mercy, I was seeing Jesus on the cross, I suddenly seen Jesus the true son of God and how he had been killed for me, my children that I couldn't say for that moment on were lost. They weren't lost, they were with the Lord, he had them, he cared for them , and will continue to have them .
Not for long one day I knew I would not be seperated from thease beloved children anymore. Forever we would be with him our loving God.

Pray the spirit of this message will offer some consulation for you.
God be with you.

Dear lord, I ask you to give support for those who have lost their childeren. It would be hard to have to bury your parents but to bury your childeren...I cant imagine.Thier lives were in your hands and I think I speak for everyone when I say we trust you in your doings.