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My friend Terry(age 12) has a bad bladder conrol problem and gets abused alot


I have an online friend named terry. He is 12 and has a bladder control problem.Because of that, he has to wear Diapers all the time. His parents, esp his dad who get angry alot, punish and spank him alot. He also gets teased pretty badly at school by other kids and even his teachers, who have no pateince for this sorta thing. He plays baseball and gets teased by the others kids there and thierparents even. He has no friends and is sad and very lonely. He spends most of the time in his room crying.
he prays everynight for help. I pray for him too. can you also pray for him?

 
tylerb12 -4/2/2001
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gpriceathome
11/6/2001 23:21

Dear Lord,

We thank you and praise your mighty name. We ask for healing Dear Lord. In the name of Jesus Christ we ask that you heal little Terry Lord. Heal his body, so that he will not longer need to wear diapers. Heal his mind, and spirit Lord, so that this will be used for good, and to your glory. Heal the hearts and minds of his parents. Lord you know they love their child, help them to be patient, loving and kind. Help those that mocked him, learn kindness. Heal Terry's heart that he may forgive and not remember in his heart the pain and loneliness he is now enduring. We pray and ask that you send two very special little boys to be his friends...true, loving, and loyal friends. We thank you for your kindness and goodness, and for hearing our prayers, and granting our special requests, that your Will will be done. In the name of your son Jesus...Thank you, Lord, Amen.


gpriceathome
11/6/2001 23:35

Terry's parents love him, I'm sure...its just they don't know how to handle this situation properly. I have a newphew who is the same way. He's 8 now, in a family of 5 children, and wears diapers. No one in our family ever mentions that this is not normal. Some of the children have glasses, some need braces, and one wears diapers. We don't even call the diapers, diapers, but simply refer to them as his underpants. We don't spank or criticize, or ever embarass him for accidents. But before we realized that he really couldn't control himself, we used to spank or punish him. It just made him withdrawn, and created other behavioral problems. Well we don't do that anymore. We just work to reduce the number of accidents and treat it as if he wears glasses, or has braces. He is very active, and has a normal life, and doesn't think twice about it anymore, and no one makes fun of him. Hopefully one day, he'll outgrow it. If not, we'll just have to accept it. Let's keep Terry's parents in our prayers. God bless you all for your well thoughts and prayers.


LilyGirl
11/22/2001 11:03

Lord please help this child. Please help him find peace and friends. And someone who would love him and not be mean to him.


looking4love
11/28/2001 02:26

Almighty Creator
I humbily pray that you send your unconditional love to this child who is recieving such a wound to his soul through his experiences. I humbily pray that he may experience the love and support to repair his heart.
Amen.


oceangal313
12/1/2001 16:36

Please tell your friend to find someone he can trust to help him. There is a product called DDAVP - it can be taken in either pill form or nasal spray (the spray is cheaper) it is available only by prescription and my son has taken it for years and it does work. Some children, like mine who is ADHD, are very sound sleepers and just don't wake up like the rest of us. Regardless of the problem this will help clear him up. He needs to talk to a counselor at his school about what is happening at home and at school.

I will keep him in my prayers


c-lynn
12/30/2001 17:02

I pray to God that you help Terry overcome his problems, and I thank you for giving him such a good friend AA.
Amen


KaitieB
1/4/2002 05:11

I pray that the children and adults that tease poor Terry see the error of their ways. I pray that Hashem will give Terry strength and determination to overcome this torment. I pray for his father, his mother. God bless you Tyler for being such a wonderful friend!


foxxy555
1/7/2002 10:25

12 years old and probably feels life is over.His parents are wrong for spanking him still.NO wonder he has a bladder problem,he has no control of anything in his life and it`s sad to think he`s going to get really messed up over this. He should be out making friends and girlfriends! But how can he have a "normal" life if he`s worried one of his parents are going to ABUSE him infront of possible friend mates.Sendinging prayers buddy!


dessa327
1/21/2002 08:52

I am sorry to hear of this child's suffering but it does make me feel a little better knowing what a friend he has in Terry. May God bless both of you and both children are in my prayers.


cuddle_bug
2/5/2002 21:23

Lord please bless this young child and let him know that he isn't alone in this world. When it gets the toughest, that's when the Lord is carrying you. God Bless You.


unifier00
2/11/2002 18:02

My creator will not change what is to happen. God will take care of him. God is concerned for the survivors. The love that exist must survive the Child.


Seuketat
2/16/2002 12:46

You are an angel, heaven sent. Some suggestions for your friend with the bladder control problem, females (especially after giving birth) and males are encouraged by doctors to (this is going to be difficult to describe, but it works) strengthen their bladder muscles by tightening the muscles in the bladder area (example: as if your keeping yourself from urinating) while he is urinating normally, tell him to try doing the stop and go method (i.e. slowly let the urine go in increments, stop-tighten, go, stop-tighten, go, by tightening the muscles with a second or two between intervals will strengthen them). Also, suggest to him to journal his feelings about all of this and how it is affecting him, this is a great method (in laymen terms it's called brain drain) to get out the anger and not hold it all in. He (or you) should definitely report the abuse to the school counselor or CPS (Child Protective Services - should be a local number in the phone directory) The parents may need to go to counseling in order to help them understand his problem and how to deal with it and these services I mentioned, may be able to help them do that. Definitely, tell your friend to go to a doctor to be treated. You can email me if you have any questions or need more information.

Best wishes,
Anna


skptmp
3/7/2002 13:56

I have a little 10 year old with the same problem at night only, he is embarrassed so I pray for this family and Terry I know it is hard. My little boy feels like he is the only one that has this problem. You are all in our thoughts and prayers.


CHATTY1255
3/12/2002 22:32

DEAR SWEET TERRY...I HOPE YOU REALIZE HOW VERY SPECIAL YOU ARE TO CARE SO GENUINELY FOR THIS YOUNG BOY THAT YOU DON'T EVEN KNOW PERSONALLY...
THAT TRULY IS A GIFT FROM GOD...I KNOW BECAUSE I HAVE HAD THAT VERY SAME GIFT EXTENDED TO ME WHEN I FELT LIKE NO ONE UNDERSTOOD OR CARED...YOU MAY VERY WELL BE HIS GUARDIAN ANGEL...KEEP UP BEING THE WONDERFUL FRIEND YOU ARE...GOD BLESS AND KEEP YOU BOTH IN HIS CARE! LOVE CATHY
PS. IF YOU'D LIKE, EMAIL ME ANYTIME AND I'LL PRAY WITH YOU... CHATTY1255@HOTMAIL.COM


choc12w
3/18/2002 18:30

Tell your friend that he has many friends, that love him and is praying for him and his brother, GOD will take care of them both..


dlcox
4/3/2002 20:15

Lord I pray for terry and his Family that they would find your mercy and love I pray Lord that you would send a special person to Terry's Family to show and teach them about You and all your Love So that thier hearts would heal and they would Love each other the way You would want Lord I pray this in the name of your son JESUS CHRIST AMEN


starflare
4/11/2002 16:53

Has Terry every thought about telling the police about the abuse? You said that he was abused by his parents i.e. spanking, etc. If he won't tell the police, then you should. I will pray about this. I understand that it is difficult to deal with someone in diapers. My grandmother has alzheimer's, a terrible disease, and she has to wear depends, so, I understand what the parents are going through, having to change terry, but, still, they shouldn't abuse him! That's wrong, and i pray to Jesus that he is cured. Still, though, we gotta put legs on those prayers. Report the abuse to the police.
Starflare of the CIU


amerama
5/17/2002 23:43

I pray that god will put loving people in his life such as yourself, that children will not have to indure such pain, and that the future will hold great happiness for your friend.


missvivian
5/20/2002 15:48

God Bless Terry and I hope in time he recovers from his bladder problem and the ugliness of those of tease him. Kharma will repay them for their acts of unkindness including his father. You are a wonderful friend. Encourage him daily - help him help himself. You are in a powerful position - use it for the good of your friend.


christianteenandproudofit122523689
6/29/2002 19:03

Well you're wrong about one thing-that he has no friends. I'll be his friend, and he can talk to me anytime(my email adress is in my profile)
Dear Heavenly Father please help this young boy to find peace in you and know that he is special because you created him. Please let the other kids know this also, so that they can also become friends with him. Help his parents to realize that what they are doing is wrong, and that he cant help what is happening to himself. Please help them get help, and let their relationship with him get much better. I pray in your name, amen.

Hope that helps! May God bless you


CicciPie
7/24/2002 20:36

I read your posting and I just had to respond.For many years I was in Terry's position. I must have gotten beat every day over things like that. I prayed to God that one day he would save me from the hell i was going through.And he did.It may have taken a while,but as usual he came through.I know that he will save Terry from all the pain he is in right now.I will pray for him. I know he is a special child of God. My prayers will be with Terry, as well as the people who are causing his pain, because they need help too


Devout1
8/8/2002 20:21

Dear Jesus,
I pray for this child and all he is going through. Please just touch him heavenly Father. He really needs Your help. Please let him know that you are there for him. Thank you. In Jesus's name. Amen.


Jujutaylor
8/16/2002 06:32

It a very sad situation. I am happy you and your friend know the Lord. Jesus has a cure for every hurt in our lives. Abouse is a killer. But the killing stops when we remembe to turn our hurts over to Jesus. When your hurt tell him to call our to Jesus. Tell mhim to keep repeating Jesus name. The demons that hold him down and his family will flee. Tell him not to give up, because God has not forgotten him. Alot of times we are attacked, but oof our humbleness and call bu the Lord. When we are young and place in a situation we cannot control the devil will try to steal your friends joy and your mind. Hang in there, you guys are special. I pray tht the Lord will remove the demons that attck your friend. God is faithfull, he promise. Stop crying and give no place to the devil. Once he knows your friend is in pain, he will continue the attack. Stop complaining and start praising God right now for what he is about to do.


oakwise
9/16/2002 04:22

Abba, You watch over each of us in times of trial, please keep a watchful eye on Terry. Grant him the strength of Your son, Jesus Christ to endure his difficulties and bless tylerb12 for his kindness to a friend. In Jesus' holy name. Amen.

 
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