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Zach- young gay insecure needs help

Im gay and extremly insecure. i feel like im under extreme stress im only 14. ive told no one. does anyone have any advice or can you help me in any way?

I need help. I have known i was gay for a year or two now. I am EXTREMELY insecure about myself and am constantly afraid other people are judging me about this, even though i've told no one. I'm only 14 and i feel like im under intense stress.I NEED hope.
Can anyone help me? ~ZA

liberalvirgo -7/22/2004
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8/4/2005 06:32

Dear Lord
I ask that you help Zach find the way that is meant for this life. I ask that you help with the insecurity and the guilt. I ask Lord that you uplift Zach in this time that you guide Zach and that you open his heart soul and mind to what you want him to see and to be in life. Let the love that you have fill his heart and soul and let the inner peace you can give fill him full. God we ask that you take full charge and guide him in his journey. Maybe he's not meant to be on the path he is right now and just got lost during the trip if so Lord please guide him back with your love and Lord what ever he is meant to be help him to know that you are the reason he is here and that you are the main one who will never judge him unjustly.

Zach Im not anti-gay but hun maybe the reason you feel so insecure and judged is because the Lord is trying to tell you that you are not meant to be gay. Sometimes things happen that without guidance and such we take the wrong way. I hope that you find your way soon. Just know that God is always just a thought away.

5/9/2006 21:25

Hi Zack. First of all, at fourteen it's difficult to actually decide about your sexual identity because it could be a phase you are going through, or maybe you are gay. However, I really think you should go to councelling to talk all of this out with someone who is trained to help with confusing times in life and to better understand your feelings regardless of your orientation. If you do talk to someone professional, anything you say in confidential between you and the councellor. Other than that there are group supports too like Gay teen anonymous also in the phone book and they will help you .
Jesus, please help Zach get the help he needs and someone trusting to talk to about his fears. Please guide him through his journey. Amen!

7/22/2007 21:31

Lord show zack that your love is unconditional. It is not conditioned on his sexuality. Let him be filled with your love and support Lord.

Zack, wheather you are gay or not does not matter to me, but I do agree with the others and think that it is too early to say you are one or the other. However, if you know then, you know... but read Romans 12, it will show you that God's will is perfect and pleasing, he knows the true desires of your heart and as long as you seek him, you will find happiness and peace with yourself. I'll keep you in my prayers!

1/14/2008 00:51

Dear God and Jesus,
Please always Bless, be with, and watch over Zac and please comfort him at all times. Please help him not to forget that he is never alone and you will always help him.
Thank you.

1/17/2008 06:24

Do you keep a private journal? I do and to journal to God, and my journal is meant for his eyes only. Journaling can help you sort out your feelings. As you write you will feel the flow from your hand to the pen the ink to the paper, it is like a release. God loves all of us Zach, and he will listen to you and if you are still/calm enough you will hear him whisper the answers you seek while you sleep. You are young and this is a major decision in your life give yourself time to digest just being 14. Ask God for guidance and direction regarding your situation. I think the reason you are feeling judged even when you have told no one else is you are judging yourself and much too harshly I might add. I pray that you find some peace of mind as well as the answers you are seeking in Jesus' Name Amen.

5/11/2009 18:42

Zach ,Do you know that your feelings about being gay are a deception from satan,the devil.God created you to give glory to him.Seek a church where they will pray with you.Jesus i bind you satan in Jesus name.Take your hands off God's property.Call 1-800-759-0700 they will pray for you.Do you know that Sodom & Gomorrah in the bible were homosexual men who asked that the angels who came to take Lot and his family out,so they could destroy the place because of homosexuals.Even today,the ground won't bring anything to fruition that's planted on it.Come to Jesus and be forgiven,Know his peace.

5/13/2009 08:56

Zachary,I'm praying for you that God will bring you to his son,Jesus Christ for forgiveness of your sins and you will recieve eternal life.Read 1Corinthians6 and understand the will of your creator God.

5/13/2009 08:59

P.S. The reason you feel judged is because the holy spirit is convicting you of guilt.Your spirit knows that homosexuality is not right with God.God created you to glorify him.Come to Jesus and know true peace.

5/15/2009 18:29

Hi Zachary,It's me again.God has put a special burden on my heart to pray for you.Like someone going into a burning building,you are in a situation that if you don't change you'll end up in a lake of fire with eternal torment in front of Jesus and the holy angels.The good news is,is that Jesus died on a cross at Golgotha,was put in a tomb and rose back to life.He went up into heaven,He's waiting for you to come to him in prayer.Just ask Jesus to forgive your homosexual lifestyle.Repent and turn away from homosexuallity.Find a church of believers who willhelp you understand what God is my e-mail address if you need to talk.God loves you enough to send Jesus to pay for your sins and my sins.

5/10/2011 02:49

God, I pray that these poor, ignorant people one day realize that Zach feels wrong because he has been taught by society, and you, that it is a damning sin to love the way he naturally and uncontrollably feels. I hope they one day realize that by making their own ideologies the "inspired" work of God, they have caused so much pain and suffering. I pray they realize that people like Zach will end their life tonight because they believe that an all powerful loving God wants them to suffer and burn in hell for eternity. I pray that their eyes are one day opened to the destruction they have caused. I hope they realize that condemning this behavior is like condemning a black man for having the mark of Cain. I hope Zach realizes, like these prayers have made me realize that we shouldn't try to please these people anymore, because thats all they are, people. From what I believe, you are love, and all these people do is hate what isn't white, pure and otherwise NORMAL. I pray that one day my suffering will end, that after 20 years of life I one day might find someone I care about, but instead I hide from the world that hates me. I lie to myself and pretend that I am not what I am. I have told myself that I simply wont ever love, just so I technically will never be "gay". I now have ran from you, and I am sorry. If this book is exactly what you meant it to be, then you skipped the test and through me straight into the lake of fire. I pray Zach has accepted himself by now... I haven't and I know how lonely and painful life can be this way. I hope Zach is still alive. I hope he hasn't been stoned by society already, or pressured into suicidal thoughts. You brought so much pain to all of us. Where is the destruction you promised me? Where are my four horses? Please, end this.

You've betrayed me. I wasn't supposed to be this. You were supposed to love me, but all everyone does is hate. "God will always love you, even if he hates your actions and wants to send you to hell for them... But that's what Jesus is for! (though he doesn't much approve either and might not vouch for you if you keep it up) Just fake it with a woman your whole life until you find comfort by the rope!

Question everything, my eyes have been opened by my curse.

I pray that people realize that the more they hate, the more they spread hate, and the more hate grows and flourishes. My hate for everyone and everything has blossomed into a beautiful black rose. I hope you all feel the sting of it's thorns. You put them there.


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