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I need wisdom to decide whether or not to divorce my spouse.

My spouse is a recovering addict with 5 years clean and sober. In the past 9 months he has returned to his "using" behaviors. I don't want to falsely accuse him, but I think he is lying to me about finances, where he goes, etc.

Please pray that I might have wisdom in making a decision about whether or not to divorce my husband. After a couple of really good years of marriage, my spouse has returned to his old "using" addict behaviors. He's hardly ever at home. He says he's working side jobs, but I never see the money. He's not being honest about how much money he's making, and I can't pay the bills with just my income. He moved out for a month, wanting his own place (and possibly another woman) and then decided that he had made a "mistake". Our marriage counselor says that I use my anger and fears about finances as a way to distance my spouse. While I want to "own" my part in our marital problems, I am starting to feel "crazy" again like when he was using. The pieces don't add up, but I would hate to think that I had falsely accused him. Please pray that I might have wisdom in clarifing this situation. I've been so out of touch with "God" that I don't think I even can hear him/her anymore. Thank-you.
lila1955 -7/30/2001
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