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child with learning disabilities who has been sexually molested & now has repeated the act


Justin has severe learning disabilities , has been ridiculed by his peers , and was sexually molested by a teacher while at camp.He has now abused another child.


My son is 13 years old. Justin has learning disabilities. He has trouble getting along with other children. He has been ridiculed and made fun of all of his life. I recently found out that he was sexually molested by a teacher at camp around the age of six.Now he has molested another child in the same way he was molested. The therapist says that he was reinacting what was done to him years ago. He doesnt seem to understand the severity of his actions or the consiquences. I have no one I can talk too because this subject is so taboo and I feel such shame over what my child has done to another smaller child.
It seems that Justin has never been given a chance in life. His self esteem is down to nothing. He has just about given up.I want him to get help and understanding. We are also trying to get him into a private school with other children like him and need prayer for finances.($6200/year) Thank you all and may God bless you.

 
daburns4 -6/8/2001
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JESUSistheANSWER
7/11/2001 16:21

My soul cries out to GOD for you and your family. I can't understand myself how grown adults can treat a child in such an ungodly way. ...Revenge is mine, says the LORD, so people better start putting thier focus on GOD instead of man,,, I will be praying for GOD to touch your child,, in his body, spirit,and please LORD we ask in JESUS NAME to touch his mind where satan wants to destroy. We speak comfort,joy,peace,finances,but LORD please touch the whole faimly , LORD they need you to move, and we know you are always on time so LORD we pray for your mighty protection on all of this family... in JESUS NAME AMEN, AMEN!!!!BA,


Bahli
7/25/2001 16:09

Oh Lady send your healing light
In form of faeries, winged and bright
Wrap this child in love forever
Helping always, hurting never.
)0( Blessed Be always


BADDANiAM2
7/29/2001 22:13

Our Dear Heavenly Father, please keep this family safe & close by your side.


LDADULT
8/7/2001 00:06

please read this, I as a child I had a learning disability and very low self esteem. I had a speech promblem and was mad fun of all the time by my class mates. I had low self esteem well into my adult years. Nothing that I did seem to turn out right (REMBER I DID IT)for years I put myself down saying that I could not do it. In 1986 I asked Jesus in my heart, that was the begining of my healing. the LORD is not done with me yet. In 1994 I moved to FLORIDA and FOUND a church it was small the pastor did not have any childern program on Wednesday night. I was a commander in a ministry called ROYAL RANGERS for seven years in a church in my home town. As the pastor of this small church found out that I was a commander in the Royal Rangers ministry He started to prayer to see if it was the LORD'S will for me to start a outpost in that church. I still did not have the self esteem that a leader needed. but it was the LORD'S plain for me to start a outpost in that church. AS the LORD worked on me and heald my past and all the hurt in my live. I was able to start that OUTPOST. All I can say to you in your time of need never give up on your son love him with all your heart tell him daily that u love him show him that love and pray to the LORD and let him guide you. In the way you are to help your son. I'll will be praying for your son and I will asked that the lord will heal the other childern also.
DEAR Lord Jesus I ask that you fill Justin with your Holy sprit and heal all the pain in his life. Let him now that you love him and care for him. Help him become the person that you see when you look at him. Let many caring people come incontact with this boy who can help him. I pray all this in your holy name JESUS CHRIST.


Queasy
8/8/2001 00:02

Om Tare Tutare Ture Soha


jsmom2000
8/9/2001 10:43

I understand what it is like to be sexually abused, physically abused, and mentally abused. I have been in all three situations, my daughter was sexually abused as a young child by another child who has ADHD he did not understand what he was doing and I understand that your son did not either, they were both repeating things that had happened to them. I know that Jesus can heal the pain that you and your son feel. I know that if you continue to love your son and tell him daily that you love him and acknowledge the accomplishments that he does he will grow up to be a much better person than those who ridicule him, make fun of him, or hurt him in any way. I know this because THE LORD says that he will take care of his children. Your child is innocent, please don't be ashamed of what he has done. He only repeated something that was done to him and at least now you know that this was done to him and can seek help through GOD and earthly professionals who deal with this daily. I know here in the area I live there is a center that takes children and adults in therapy according to their income. It is called the Walter G Nord Center here, but you may want to call around and ask if there is a clinic in your area that does this, because this child definitely needs to be in therapy and possibly a different school and maybe it is just a matter of moving when The Lord provides that income that you can do that to another school district. The neighboring school district of ours has special classes for children with severe learning disabilities. You and your family are in my prayers and I will ask that my Sunday School class pray for you also.


JANELLEM22
9/3/2001 12:34

I FEEL YOUR SONS PAIN. I WAS MOLESTED BY A NEIGHBOR WHEN I WAS ONLY 5 YEARS OLD. I AM NOW 22 AND LIVE WITH IT EVERY DAY. I TOO, HAD WEIRD FEELINGS AND DESIRES AND NEVER KNEW WHY. WHEN YOUR YOUNG AND SOMETHING LIKE THAT HAPPENS, YOU DONT KNOW HOW TO PROCESS IT OR DEAL WITH IT. I PRAY FOR YOUR SON. I PRAY THAT HE HEALS AND SEE'S THAT NO ONE DESERVES TO HAVE THAT DONE TO THEM. I PRAY THAT THE LORD WILL HELP HIM LET GO AND UNDERSTAND HOW TO COPE WITH SUCH FEELINGS AND MEMORIES. YES, IT IS HORRIBLE THAT HE IS RE-PEATING THE PROCESS, BUT YOU MUST UNDERSTAND....IF YOU HAVE NOT HAD SUCH A THING HAPPEN, YOU MAY NEVER TRULY UNDERSTAND. JUST STAND BY , LOVE AND BELIEVE IN HIM. HE NEEDS YOU AND GOD. HAS HE GOTTON LONG TERM THERAPY? I NEEDED SUCH THERAPY AND IT REALLY HAS HELPED ME. YOU , YOUR SON, AND YOUR WHOLE FAMILY WILL BE IN MY PRAYERS.


libbykins
9/30/2001 07:09

Dear Heavenly Father, please bless this mother with the courage and the strength to help her child. Dear Heavenly Mother, please comfort this mother in her pain. O my Jesus, help heal this child's pain and bring him closer to You. Lord hear out prayers.


Sylkwood
10/5/2001 12:30

May these children heal in the light and love that only children are blessed enough to receive. May their Parents have the resources to care for the damage that was done to them through no fault of their own, and may they they all find peace in their hearts.


MROBERTSON
10/17/2001 10:45

Dear heavenly Father, I pray for this family and especially this innocent little boy. I pray that you heal Justin and help forget the evil act that was done upon him. I pray that you protect this little boy from all evil. I pray also for the victim and his family. I pray that you protect all children from this violent and evil act. In your name. Amen.

Love & Blessings,


Martha


kjordan67
10/20/2001 19:50

Father,
I pray for all the individuals in this circle who have been effected by the vicious cycle of abuse. Lord, all the people here need only to come to you. Show them the way to you O Lord. Father, How I pray that you will stop these acts from happening. Lord I know from first hand experience that this is hatred in the vilest form. Lord help the innocent children who are suffering at Satans hands. Stop this cycle from continuing. We sing may the circle be unbroken...Father break the circle of abuse that my family has known. Your will be done. May a holy circle form in its place.


mariahgutierrez
10/22/2001 22:16

I PRAY THAT PEACE BE UPON THIS FAMILY AND HEALING FOR JUSTIN.THAT THE FINANCES WILL BE MET.


anatsor
11/12/2001 17:34

Lord, I pray that you send Justin, his family, the other child and his family, all the strength and love that they will require to see this through. Shine your light brightly on all these your children so that they can feel all your love. This is what will heal their pain and help them find peace. I pray for this with all my heart..for I know the pain of being the Mother of an abused child.





faiths_fire7
12/3/2001 20:26

Father God, in Your grace and mercy, rescue Jason from the emotional trauma of this experience that happened to him years ago. Please keep him from repeating the act once again on yet another child. Lead him to the right doctors that will aide him in dealing with his emotions, and also with his learning disabilities. Please, show Your tender mercy and help Jason to break the pattern that has been put upon his life, and help him to go on and lead a productive, happy, healthy life.
In Jesus' name, amen


Heisrisenindeed
12/6/2001 14:40

Dear Heavenly Father deliver this child completely from the pain and anger of his abuse and from ANY desire to abuse anyone else! Flood him with Your Holy Spirit every moment of every day, take full control of his life, and remove any opportunities to abuse while this transformation is taking place. Give his parents and teachers and other adults in his life an abundance of Your Wisdom, and the vigilance to ensure that it doesn't happen again!----Dear parents, I know you are being councelled patience and understanding, but it is VITAL that he know you find this behavior totally unacceptable! Tough Love! Help him to relate what he is feeling to his actions, and to realize that , no matter what has been done to him and no matter how he feels about it, He himself is totally responsible for governing his own actions!--I was sexually abused as a child, and I almost went down the road of victimizing others,(battering), He needs to hear Over and Over again that the abuse done to him was NOT his Fault, but that HE alone has the responsibility to decide NOT to act on his anger and hate by abusing anyone else! Remind him that his rage is completely normal and justified, but that he CAN'T EVER be allowed or allow himself to take it out on others, HE has to be the one to decide how he is going to act from now on!--God doesn't care what we have done in the past if we have sincerely asked Him forgiveness, and tried to right the wrong, even if our offense was only 5 minutes ago, but He DOES hold us fully responsible for what we decide to do NOW, from this moment forward! I will be praying for you all.


Heisrisenindeed
12/6/2001 14:57

My email is arielfelice06/22/54@yahoo.com Don't be ashamed about what your son has done & don't let it prevent you from seeking the help and support of other parents, other believers, and anyone else who might be able to help. You need to tell him the hard truth of what his future will look like if he chooses to continue the behavior--a bleak life of confinement and few if any opportunities. He will begin to hate himself in the begining, as the gravity of what he has done begins to sink in, and will need constant reminders of God's Great Love and Grace and Forgiveness, but if you lay it on him HARD about his own responsibility for his own future behavior, over time, he will come out of it feeling empowered to make the best decisions for his own future.--It will be hard now, but in the end you will be giving him Hope, and what psychologists call self-efficacy--(confidence and well-deserved pride in ones'self)---God Bless!!!--And a BIG HUGE HUG!!--You sound like you need one right now!--xxx


BritBaptist
2/23/2002 13:50

Lord,
You're will may at times be hard for us to understand.Yet we also know that you are truely merciful,and so we beg of you,Open Justin's heart to your love.
Heal his,and his mothers pain,and guide Justin into the light.
Lord Guide us,Amen.


lissavbratz
3/3/2002 13:21

DEAR L0RD, PLEASE HELP THIS BOY AND MY MARC WHO HAVE SIMILAR SITUATIONS. PLEASE HELP THIS CHILD HE HAS A LONG LIFE AHEAD OF HIM SAVE HIM FROM THE TERRIBLE SITUATION GOING ON WITH MARC. WE MUST GO FORWARD AND BELIEVE THAT YOU WILL HELP HEAL THE WOUNDS AND STOP THE ABUSE AMEN


puma
5/16/2002 21:44

i cried when i read Your words.for they hit home hard for me...i also have a son(8).who is handicapped...was divorced from His father and found out after christmas a few yrs ago that the father had been molesting Him and His older sister(10)..i wil pray for Juatin and You.,....and please know.i DO understand.......my son then turned around and molested my younger child...not knowing what He was doing...this is NOT Your fault!! know that God is with You..and with Justin....and because of Juatins handicaps...He is NOT held accountable by God for His actions....this is what i was told by some very dear friends in my old church....may God help take away Justin's and Your family's pain....and replace it with many many blessings and love.....God is with You all always.....Amen


waz_52
7/15/2002 01:45

Justins Story is so much like mine, a history of abuse though as a child for 17 yrs, then sexual acts when under 5, now 49 and an offender, full os shame a guilt, all I can offer is support and to offer a group that helps offenders in America, called The Giaretto Institute and in Australia it's called Safecare. My prayers go out to Justin, his victim and to the families involved.
May the Lord Jesus Christ accept Justin into his care and Dear Lord our Heavenly father forgive us our sins.
God bless

 
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