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Monique is a wife of only three years who is very confused and scared. Feels alone, her husband and her don't share anything anymore...

I have been married for three years now. No one ever told me how hard marriage is...I have so many doubts inside..did i marry the right guy...am i happy....why do i feel so alone...how come i don't feel in love with him...why do i run away so much...I have am recovering from an eating disorder which took 9 years of my life away from me...I am psychologically and emotionally very immature..I am not used to handling feelings and emotions..I was numb for so long...I need faith and love and prayers...I need to learn to trust god and give it to him instead of worrying and reading into every little thing....any prayers or marriage advice out there...thank you....God bless you...
 
mickeya76 -5/7/2001
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atelan
7/31/2004 11:55

Dear mon r...i'm sorry you are going through a hard time...one thing that I've learned over the years of my marriage is that if I take the focus off of myself, my insecurities...etc..., and put them into thinking about my husband and what I can we do for him today after a while I don't feel bad about myself or my situation. Satan has a way of making us feel bad about ourselves so we waste our time thinking about our situation instead of thinking about how we can solve the problems in our life. I've been married for 26 years this October and I still find that If I take my focus off of my husband and place it on my problems, things don't go well in the relationship...God made everyone beautiful...He doesn't make mistakes...and he loves you and wants you to be happy... If you have the oppurtunity read the book in the Bible named "Song of Solomon" it talks about a relationship that I believe God wants us to have as married couples. Also, try doing special things for your husband that really get his attention in and out of the bedroom. For example, one day my kids were at school and my husband was going to be home early, so secretly I made a special lunch for us...candles on the table...used best dishes...made his favorite foods...put on soft music...and met him at the door with a very sexy nightgown on. He hasn't forgotten that day and that was 12 years ago. Most men care more about how we as wives make them feel as a man than how we look on the outside. They need to know and be shown they are loved and needed just as we do as wives. Men are driven by their eye sight and women are driven by their heart, it doesn't make one better than the other it's just the way God made us, so if we do things to please each other that way we grow together as a couple and things work out...take one day at a time because that's all God has given us. A long time ago I read a poem that said "Marriage takes three"...God is the third person because without him life is very unsatisfying and empty. I'll be praying for you and your husband.


atelan
7/31/2004 11:58

Dear mon r...i'm sorry you are going through a hard time...one thing that I've learned over the years of my marriage is that if I take the focus off of myself, my insecurities...etc..., and put them into thinking about my husband and what I can we do for him today after a while I don't feel bad about myself or my situation. Satan has a way of making us feel bad about ourselves so we waste our time thinking about our situation instead of thinking about how we can solve the problems in our life. I've been married for 26 years this October and I still find that If I take my focus off of my husband and place it on my problems, things don't go well in the relationship...God made everyone beautiful...He doesn't make mistakes...and he loves you and wants you to be happy... If you have the oppurtunity read the book in the Bible named "Song of Solomon" it talks about a relationship that I believe God wants us to have as married couples. Also, try doing special things for your husband that really get his attention in and out of the bedroom. For example, one day my kids were at school and my husband was going to be home early, so secretly I made a special lunch for us...candles on the table...used best dishes...made his favorite foods...put on soft music...and met him at the door with a very sexy nightgown on. He hasn't forgotten that day and that was 12 years ago. Most men care more about how we as wives make them feel as a man than how we look on the outside. They need to know and be shown they are loved and needed just as we do as wives. Men are driven by their eye sight and women are driven by their heart, it doesn't make one better than the other it's just the way God made us, so if we do things to please each other that way we grow together as a couple and things work out...take one day at a time because that's all God has given us. A long time ago I read a poem that said "Marriage takes three"...God is the third person because without him life is very unsatisfying and empty. I'll be praying for you and your husband.


atelan
7/31/2004 11:58

Dear mon r...i'm sorry you are going through a hard time...one thing that I've learned over the years of my marriage is that if I take the focus off of myself, my insecurities...etc..., and put them into thinking about my husband and what I can we do for him today after a while I don't feel bad about myself or my situation. Satan has a way of making us feel bad about ourselves so we waste our time thinking about our situation instead of thinking about how we can solve the problems in our life. I've been married for 26 years this October and I still find that If I take my focus off of my husband and place it on my problems, things don't go well in the relationship...God made everyone beautiful...He doesn't make mistakes...and he loves you and wants you to be happy... If you have the oppurtunity read the book in the Bible named "Song of Solomon" it talks about a relationship that I believe God wants us to have as married couples. Also, try doing special things for your husband that really get his attention in and out of the bedroom. For example, one day my kids were at school and my husband was going to be home early, so secretly I made a special lunch for us...candles on the table...used best dishes...made his favorite foods...put on soft music...and met him at the door with a very sexy nightgown on. He hasn't forgotten that day and that was 12 years ago. Most men care more about how we as wives make them feel as a man than how we look on the outside. They need to know and be shown they are loved and needed just as we do as wives. Men are driven by their eye sight and women are driven by their heart, it doesn't make one better than the other it's just the way God made us, so if we do things to please each other that way we grow together as a couple and things work out...take one day at a time because that's all God has given us. A long time ago I read a poem that said "Marriage takes three"...God is the third person because without him life is very unsatisfying and empty. I'll be praying for you and your husband.


soldoutonjesus
12/6/2004 19:49

Dear Mon r...I'm sorry that you are going through this difficult time.May god bless your marriage and just remember there's a blessing in the storm.


mermaid14
7/29/2005 07:39

Dear Lord
please give this woman the power to be strong for her children's sake. Please bless her and protect her. Thank You Lord for all that You have given us. Amen


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