Finding the Right Person
The global population tilts in favor more men. We're talking about males vs. females; and the men are in the majority by a whopping .3%
Yet you're pretty sure there isn't a bevy of decent men where you live - so where to find nice guys?
Anywhere but home. You need to get out more. Go to the grocery store daily instead of weekly. Curl up with a good book in the library or bookstore instead of your couch.
Kick your comfortable self in the behind and go out among your neighbors and friends.