Marriage is not all you thought it would be or heard about when you were growing up. We go into marriage thinking we have it all figured out and then you land on your backside! You discovered that you have been grossly deceived by the media, yourself and by those romantic movie comedies. Going into any relationship there are a lot of preconceived ideas. Maybe you are one of the special ones who have figured it all out ahead of time (sense the sarcasm here?). For those who have unearthed the misconceptions in your marriage this one is for you. As much as we don’t want to admit it we believe that being married is a honeymoon every day, you can change the person and sex is irrelevant. Marriage can be very unpredictable and we sometimes need a helmet. However, we need to take ownership of our own behaviors. You can do something about the misconceptions before it becomes a problem. Here are 5 lies we often believe about marriage.