The start of married life can feel like a fairytale but once you’ve been married for any length of time, you soon realize that you need more than Disney’s version of true love to make your marriage last. Being happily married doesn’t just happen. Strong, healthy, happy marriages take a lot of work. Our attitudes and behaviors truly matter. Here are seven sneaky traps that will kill your marriage. These destructive behaviors are perfectly designed to undo the bonds of closeness and destroy your marriage. It’s crucial to be able to spot these issues as soon as possible in order to save your marriage. If you or your spouse fall into these negative patterns in the way you relate to one another, you will not only end up in a rut, but also hurt one another and your marriage.