Every marriage has its bumps, and they can show up at any time. What is most important is that you and your partner are clear about what you are committed to in your marriage. Falling in love is for many people one of the greatest experience of their lives. But as our love grows and deepens, an abiding awareness takes hold of us: we want this to last. Our conversations about love enter the realm of foreseeing a shared future together. This is when we really begin to think about what commitment looks like. We marry out of a desire to known and be known, to love and be loved, believing that together we can experience life more deeply than apart. Healthy marriages are created through intentions and it’s crucial that you and your partner are both aware of what you want from marriage. Here are seven kinds of marriages you want to be in.