The road of marriage can be delightfully all encompassing or downright frightening depending on the choices we make. We know that the marriage is more than a big party and a fancy honeymoon. After all the gifts are opened and the final “thank you” card is mailed, the work has begun. With all the ups and the downs that we go through to figure out what matrimony is, we may make a few mistakes along the way. These don’t need to be fatal, but they can thwart a potentially successful marriage. Maybe you believe this only happens to other people or on reality television. When we believe that our relationships are not susceptible to failure then we lie to ourselves. All of us are vulnerable to the pitfalls that come with any relationship. The point is to avoid fatal mistakes to keep the marriage afloat. Here are 10 things you should not do in a marriage.