The amount of energy women expend on trying to figure out how a guy feels could probably power an entire country...for a lifetime!
Women will dig deep into their memories, take every interaction and put it under a microscope in order to find hidden clues and secret meanings. The hunt to figure it all out isn’t only futile, it’s potentially damaging to your self-esteem. You put yourself at his mercy, he gets to decide if you’re “worthy” or not. All your mental energy goes towards figuring out where he stands and you become a second-class citizen in your own life!
Amidst this quest to figure out how he feels, a lot of women ruin a good relationship before it really has the chance to get off the ground. If you have to know right now if he doesn’t really like you, this is the article for you. When a man is in love with you, it’s usually pretty obvious. The rule of thumb is: if you have to ask, then you already have your answer. However, this isn’t satisfactory for a lot of women. Instead of giving you a checklist to know how a man feels about you, let’s look at what not to do along this quest to figure out where he stands. This will not only preserve your sanity, it may even save your relationship.