There are few things in life worse than a difficult breakup. Whether you’re the one breaking it off, or on the receiving end of a split, there’s a special pain and wounding that comes along with the deferred hope, sense of failure and straight up heart ache associated with a painful split. The unavoidably bad news is you might have spent time, money, energy and sometimes years of loving someone you might now never know again. The incredibly good news is God absolutely knows and has a plan for your heart, and will guide you towards the loving mate you deserve, if you let him. The key is learning to see yourself through God’s eyes, understanding he wants the best for you, including a partner who loves your whole heart, and considers themselves blessed to have you. Breakups unavoidably suck, and we’ll hurt for a while, but here are some truths that help ease the pain, and speed the healing.