As much as you may want to, you can’t get around it. The person you’re married to probably had sex with someone else before they had sex with you. Maybe it was with a few people. Maybe it was with a lot of people. And honestly, some of the experiences they shared with you may not leave you feeling too comfortable or secure about the relationship. But if you want your marriage to work, it’s your responsibility to deal with that past. No one said it’s easy to deal with your partner’s sexual past, especially if it’s more colorful than your own. If you find yourself getting jealous, you’re not alone either. Jealously is something that most people have to deal with at one point or another in their marriage. The great news is we have the power to move past it. Here are five things you should do when dealing with a sexual past in a marriage.