Despite the romantic movies of how dating is supposed to be something that is flawless and takes little work, it takes a ton of effort to keep it afloat and to succeed. This is why the vetting process is so vital in finding the right guy. However, the notion of marriage takes little effort! Winifred M. Reilly is a family therapist and shared with the Huffington Post there are ways to finds out if your guy is not ready for marriage. "If the one you’re with is looking for an easy, no effort relationship, you are with someone who isn’t going to be a true partner when the going gets rough." Outside of this, he might be selfish, wants to be financially secure or he may be afraid of getting married. Here are 5 telltale signs that he is not ready to marry you and if you should move on.