Learn to Pre-Pave
Another big one. A lot of single women I know (both friends and clients), have unconscious negative expectations around dating and finding their soulmates. Because they’ve been on a lot of bad dates, or have cycled through so many relationships that haven’t worked, they tend to propel that negative energy momentum forward and, true to Law of Attraction, continue to attract what they don’t want (because their predominant thoughts and feelings are still on those experiences). One way to get out of this vicious cycle is to consciously pre-pave the experience you are hoping to create by visualizing what you want in your mind.
Think about what your ideal partner would look and sound like. Visualize the setting of your first meeting and how smoothly and effortlessly it would go. And most importantly, really focus on how you would feel if you were to meet that person (how you are feeling is an indicator of your energy vibration). Remember, the Universe can’t tell the difference between whether you are imagining a circumstance or actually experiencing it as long as you are really feeling it – it’s only reading your vibration in the present moment and reflecting it back to you. So, start shifting your point of attraction by visualizing exactly what you want before you go on more dates or meet more people.