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How do you know if your unfaithful spouse will cheat again? “How remorseful the guilty party is will give you a big clue about the future,” advises eHarmony. “If the person expresses real remorse and takes full responsibility for their actions, studies say they are less likely to embark on this destructive behavior again. Be worried about the cheater who makes excuses for their behavior, or isn’t apologetic. The most important thing to remember if your partner strays is that they made a really bad decision – and you didn’t. Instead of blaming yourself for their betrayal, appreciate your worth, know you are enough just as you are, and recognize the infidelity or other betrayal had nothing to do with you and everything to do with their poor choice.”