Refinement "Pruning" Process
God uses marriage to refine us in areas that no one else can ever get to (John 15:2). Most often this is where the frustration and irritation comes from. If we’re given to pride, marriage will work to humble you. If you struggle with patience, your marriage will challenge you in this area. If you’re not the cleanest person, you will become neater. Your personalities are incompatible in certain areas for a reason. To balance and refine your life. Give-in a little, bend some and stick it out. You’ll be amazed what wonderful fruit comes forth throughout your life.