There Is Sex After Breast Cancer
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Many people express concern about sexual issues while they are undergoing breast cancer treatment. Understanding that changes will occur will help you handle them as they come up during the course of your treatment. No matter if you are undergoing treatment for breast cancer or are recently diagnosed, you may want information on sexual issues that you are facing now or that you are concerned about for the future.
Dealing With Vaginal Dryness
One side effect of chemotherapy
can be vaginal dryness, the result of early menopause
caused by damage to the ovaries during treatment. Dryness can make sex painful or difficult. Try using a water-based lubricant without additives that can irritate the vaginal lining, such as perfumes or flavors. Try to avoid gels that contain herbal extracts or gels that create a warming sensation. In some women, they can cause an allergic reaction. Vaginal moisturizers help retain moisture and proper acid balance. They are used for longer periods of time to help with dryness outside of sexual intercourse. Moisturizers are available without a prescription.
Experiencing Sex After a Mastectomy
Losing a breast through a mastectomy
can considerably impact your sex life. It's okay, even encouraged, to mourn what you lost. The important part of acceptance is the ability to know when to move forward after a period of grieving. During this process, focus your attention on the fact that you survived your cancer and you are better and stronger for it. Once you adjust to the way you look, take the next step and communicate your feelings with your partner. This is also an important step for your partner to take. If you feel frustrated and angry, try not to use it in a negative manner. It may spark an arguement and alienate your partner even more.If you are feeling self-conscious, it may be tempting to avoid intercourse. If you feel this way, start out slowly. Make time with your partner to share some touch time. This can make you feel closer and help you rebuild your sexual relationship. During this time, clarify to your partner if something hurts. It may be an area that was not sensitive to pain before your surgery.It is possible that your partner is uncomfortable viewing or touching your scar. Again, communication is important. Don't jump to conclusions. There may be a good reason that has nothing to do with your new look. Your partner may be afraid of hurting you. Communication and a sense of humor are your best tools for rebuilding your sex life. If you and your partner keep experiencing difficulties, a sex therapist
may be able to help you.