Rivka Danzig teaches graduate students at Penn. She has a thriving psychotherapy practice. She has been known to search the world over for a way out of a medical quagmire.The 47-year-old Ph.D. from Wynnewood knows how to operate in this world. But though she has no trouble making her own voice heard, some of her most important speeches make use of the words of others.
When she gets up or goes to bed, when she starts a meal and ends it, when she sees a rainbow, reunites with a long-lost friend, even goes to the bathroom, Danzig recites the prescribed Jewish blessing, or berakhah. The blessings are taken from the Talmudic Berakhot, considered to be the most useful of the ancient rabbis' writings on prayer.
|There are blessings for food, drink, and other things that are enjoyed; for good health and other causes to thank and praise; and for required religious activities.|
"Everything we do is preceded by, and often ended by, prayers," said Danzig, a lifelong Orthodox Jew. There are blessings for food, drink, and other things that are enjoyed; for good health and other causes to thank and praise; and for required religious activities such as the lighting of the Sabbath candles. At times, the blessings are hugely practical, said Danzig, the mother of three. When hearing thunder, for instance, she prays, "Blessed are You, Hashem, our God, King of the universe, for His strength and His power fill the world."
"Isn't that better than [telling a fearful child], 'God is bowling'?"
|The heart is to be directed to heaven, the mind fixed on God.|
The ancient rabbis dictated that the blessings not be made by rote but with kavana--"with a full heart and with full intention," explained Danzig. The heart is to be directed to heaven, the mind fixed on God.
Danzig said she agreed with the ancient rabbis' belief that individuals should not be the ones who decide when or whether to pray: "Let's say you're not in the mood. Well, whether you're in the mood or not, this is what you need to do." Of what motivates her, she said simply, "After 47 years, either you buy into this or not."
The blessings are not just for the Orthodox but "are relatively commonly made" by Jews of all traditions who seek to "be engaging of God" in everyday life, said Rabbi Saul Berman, who teaches at Stern College of Yeshiva University and Columbia University School of Law. He said the better-known berakhot are said so often, they are committed to memory, while the more obscure ones can be looked up in the Jewish prayerbook, called the Siddur.
How they are handled in public depends on the situation, Rabbi Berman said. If people nearby would understand them and join in, they'd likely be said out loud. Not so among strangers, where the prayer would be said in an undertone that could go unnoticed.
For Danzig, the berakhot are just part of what she called "a 24-hour religion."
|The goal is God-awareness throughout life, and the blessings foster that.|