Gay enlightenment comes, in part, from seeing the world from the perspective of an outsider. It comes also from bringing a different, less polarized, set of assumptions to the process of observing the world. And it comes, for most of us, from not being parents and thus not being caught up in rearing offspring and holding expectations for their lives. The various forms of what is called "gay spirituality" arise from--and facilitate--this enlightened stance. From this position, it is possible to understand what religion is really about in the "big picture."
Because gay people are conditioned to step outside the assumptions of society to see sexuality in a more expansive way, we are blessed--and sometimes cursed--with this vanguard vision. If we can deal with this vision successfully, we can assist everybody in understanding the real message of religion.
In fact, it is by our issues that religious people are being tested on the real message of their faith: Do they obey the commandment to love their neighbor or do they give in to prejudice and homophobia? Can religious mentality keep up with cultural change?
It is in regard to our issues that the churches give themselves away. By appealing to homophobia, based in an outmoded view of human nature, instead of helping to cure it for everybody's good, they show their failure to abide by the basic teachings they proclaim about love and compassion, they exemplify their inability to cope with the modern world, and they demonstrate (to us, at least) that they are not being led by divine guidance.
The World Has Changed
Popular religion does not make sense anymore. The traditional myths described the universe as a small disk, not much bigger than the Mediterranean Basin and only about 4,000 years old, floating at the center of a watery firmament, ruled by personal deities with distinctively human traits. Scientific observation shows us a universe that extends billions of light-years into expanding space-time. There is no watery firmament, and the mythical gods couldn't have begun to fathom the modern cosmos. And we've only been looking at it with sophisticated instruments for a few decades. We have barely begun to see what it really is.
The old myths do not address many of the issues that drive modern consciousness: overpopulation, pollution, ecological dynamics, the well-being of the oceans and the rain forests, weapons of mass destruction, exploration of space, cancer, television, automobiles, biotechnology, computers, globalization, evolution, liberty, democracy, psychological sophistication, racial equality, and, of course, sexual orientation.
Religion is supposed to be the conveyor of wisdom. In its myths are supposed to be descriptions--in metaphor and symbol--of how consciousness operates. But the operations of consciousness have become much too complex to be addressed by old myths. Some things that were once important, like human sacrifice and ritual purity, do not even interest us today.
The way to reclaim the positive aspects of religion--sometimes referred to by contemporary religious revolutionaries as "spirituality"--is to rise to a higher perspective from which to understand the wisdom hidden behind the religious myths.
Gay Consciousness and the Real Meaning of Religion
In the last 100 years a new way of expressing and understanding sexual identity has developed among human beings. We now use words like "homosexual" and "heterosexual." While people obviously had homosexual sex in the past and formed friendship circles and social cliques with other people like themselves, until recently only a rare few identified themselves thereby or experienced that fact as a source of distinctive and positive personality traits. This is something new. This gives us a new perspective on life.
Gay consciousness is trained from an early age to view life from a perspective of critical distance. Gay people are skilled at seeing from over and above and outside. We can model for the rest of humanity how to understand the real wisdom of religion.
Homosexuality and religion are inextricably intertwined. The primary objection to homosexuality in mainstream America remains religious tradition and Scriptural injunction. Yet many homosexuals naturally embody the traits of sensitivity and gentleness that religion is intended to teach. Gay men are often saints and moral exemplars. In spite of the contrary examples that can be offered, there is a goodness and virtue that runs through gay men's lives, and a demonstration of real spirituality in how many of us resolve the problem of making sense of religion in the modern world.