Watchwoman on the Wall

Watchwoman on the Wall

Ungodly Advice Comes from Dear Abby to Unmarried Pregnant Woman

DEAR ABBY: I’m “eight months pregnant with my first’ child. It is my boyfriend’s third child. I don’t get along with the other children’s mothers, but I want my son to have a relationship with his brother and sister. How do I go about getting this to happen?  HOPEFUL IN ARKANSAS

DEAR HOPEFUL: I applaud you for wanting your son to have a relationship with his half-siblings. Family is important, and when the children are older, it could be beneficial for them.  A way to establish a kinship with the other mothers might be to remind them that, in a sense, you’re all members of the same “club.”  Considering their former boyfriend’s history, membership may continue to expand, so it’s in everyone’s interest to stick together.


Source: The News-Herald, Lake County, Ohio —- Saturday, September 17, 2011 – Page B1

Watchwoman: This letter from “Hopeful in Arkansas” and Abby’s answer disturbed me so greatly that I am beside myself with such intense emotions, I can barely speak!  Not one of these emotions is supportive of Abby’s inadequate reply.    Abby offers no advice for the young mother’s choice of “boyfriends.”  No advice of the order of society of courtship rules that agree with God’s Worldview!  Using God’s Rules:  Boys and girls meet, get to know one another, establish a relationship by dating, go steady, get engaged,  then get married and sometime AFTER that, establish a family.   What Abby supports is exactly what keeps the ghetto and welfare state prospering under today’s Johnson’s Great Society of Poverty. It is why guns rule the inner city instead of God’s Laws with men being the head of their family and loving his wife like Christ loves His Church!  First, why would any woman with any intelligence and discernment ever “date” or “hook-up” with a “boyfriend” who has two other children with women he evidently never bothered to marry?   What is wrong with this pregnant woman?  Where is her morals?  Where is her self-confidence?  Where is her relationship with God?  Apparently none of those things exist!  If family is distinguished by this eight-month pregnant woman’s worldview and Abby’a post-God, post-modern, post Ten Commandments, post-religious worldview, to be designated as three single woman who have nothing more in common than having allowed the same creep deposit bodily fluids in their bodies, may God help America because we are in much more serious trouble than figuring out how to keep a third bastard child in touch with her bastard half brother and bastard half sister.  [Now don’t get all bent out of shape by the word bastard. It is used in the King James Bible.]  This Abby response makes me see such intense red-hot anger that I can barely focus on writing an intelligent response. Abby never even asks these questions:  (1.) How old is the eight-month pregnant woman? (2.) How old is the feral pig who impregnated her? (3.) How does she and this creep plan to support the child?  (4.) Is he supporting his other children?  (5.) Abby assumes the irresponsible father will repeat his mendacious behavior with other women, but never addresses the consequences that will eventually propose for the children he has already fathered.  (6.)  Is he a member of the NBA — because it sounds exactly like the majority of feral basketball players who have sex like animals in the wild with feral females also in the wild.  (FYI, #6 is not for serious questioning, but just one of my angry thoughts expressed.)  This self-centered fool obviously doesn’t give a hoot for this eight-moth pregnant woman or else he’d be willing to marry her and provide a home, support and pledge his life-long fidelity to her.  (7.) Where is her father and mother? Where is her family?  (8.) Where is her church support? Evidently she doesn’t belong to a church since she’s writing to a godless, ignorant, nincompoop like Abby for advice!  We, in the USA wonder why daily almost in Cleveland and every other huge city in America, where poverty prevails and guns and ruthless feral gangs rule the block, why government programs have never solved their problems.  It’s because money is not their problem, lack of being taught to obey God’s Rules for self-control and responsibility is what is lacking!  Instead of throwing money at lunacy and irresponsibility, share the Gospel of Jesus Christ with them.  Then teach them to obey God’s Laws!  It is called “The Great Commission” and Jesus Christ said it must be carried out by every one of His Disciples until He comes again!  The government is as blind as Abby and both are leading the ignorant and blind into another pitfall from which they will continually be stuck inside, sunk in the miry clay, until the Truth of Jesus Christ finds them and leads then out of their desperate situations with Moral Behavior that God’s Law-Word demands!  


The Great Commission: King James Bible  – Matthew 28:18-20  And Jesus came and spake unto them, saying, All power is given unto me in heaven and in earth.  19  Go ye therefore, and teach all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Ghost:  20  Teaching them to observe all things whatsoever I have commanded you: and, lo, I am with you alway, even unto the end of the world. Amen.

Matthew 15:14 –  …they be blind leaders of the blind. And if the blind lead the blind, both shall fall into the ditch.


Luke 6:39 –  … Can the blind lead the blind? shall they not both fall into the ditch?

▬  Donna Calvin

See related Watchwoman posts:

* Feral Children – Years of liberal dogma have spawned a generation of amoral, uneducated, welfare dependent, brutalised youngsters – posted Thursday August 11, 2011
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* Click here ▬>  “Inspirational. Do you know for sure?” posted on Tuesday July 26, 2011 located at 

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LIST OF 10 PLANKS of the COMMUNIST MANIFESTO posted Monday July 11, 2011
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Donna Calvin

posted September 28, 2011 at 4:51 pm

Vanessa, using your logic then if a robbery is committed and the deed is done, there’s no sense trying to educate the robber about the evilness and futility of being a robber, right? Is that what you’re suggesting, because what else can you mean?

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posted September 28, 2011 at 2:49 pm

The deed was already done. Dear Abby offered the best advice she could given the circumstances. Quoting the bible to this woman, may have been inspirational, but it would not have changed the fact that this woman is pregnant, and she wants a relationship with the half siblings. Why get angry when all Abby did was try to help this woman’s currentl situation?

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Frances Karasek

posted September 23, 2011 at 12:06 pm


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