I have a new post at Bloom: Parenting Kids with Disabilities. It’s called “Not so Funny” and it begins:
I absorb a lot of news every week. We listen to National Public Radio morning and evening. We subscribe to Time, The New Yorker, and the Sunday New York Times. I read a handful of blogs and receive a daily Google update on stories with the key words “Down syndrome.” And usually, when an article or story catches my eye, I write about it. That might be because I appreciate the perspective or information shared, or because I’m saddened or opposed by the view it presents.
But then there are the stories that bother me so much they don’t even seem worth commenting upon. The church that wanted to burn the Koran on September 11th, for instance, left such a bad taste in my mouth that I didn’t even want to mention it. And last year, when the TV show “Family Guy” ran a series of episodes with a character with Down syndrome, I refrained from wading in to the debate it inspired. Then it came to my attention that a song from “Family Guy” had been nominated for an Emmy. The song was called “Down syndrome girl.” It included the following lyrics:
Her kiss is so inviting
and her hugs are so delighting.
And what makes them really nice
is that they’ve got a little spice
Because they’re tighter than a vice
and they go on for an hour.
My boy, between the two of us
we’ll get you on that shorty bus
And then you’re going to take it for a whirl…
Now go impress that…
As of Monday, shoelace-tying
Just a little crooked walking,
Coyly pouting, booby-sprouting,
For some reason always shouting,
Happiness and joy creating…
Down syndrome girl!
Even then, I ignored the news…
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