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The Queen of My Self

The Queen of My Self

Blessings for a Smooth Mercury in Retrograde

Mercury, the planet of communication enters its thrice a year retrograde stage on August 20 and will remain in a backward momentum, as it were, until September 12.

Mercury in retrograde has a very bad rap. I should know. As a Virgo (which is ruled by Mercury) I am usually affected quite profoundly. But over the years I have learned a thing or two about how to survive in one piece, and how to use this potentially frustrating phase in a fruitful manner.

When Mercury is moving direct, our minds tend to work on a functional/forward level. Our actions match our intentions. Our energy is invested in more assertive decision-making and action with less emphasis on retrospection and reflection.

However, we are constantly picking up on unconscious intuitive information, which will surface — if we let it — during the retrograde cycle. And this is a very good thing. We need time to rest and assimilate all the information that we are bombarded with in our techno, multitasking world. A time for our Queenly inner wisdom to manifest and guide us to reorganize, rethink, reevaluate, redo and reboot. This is a crucial and healthy part of the organic, natural flow of life.  

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The clock and dollar orientation that our culture calls “the real world” is comprised of schedules, deadlines and to do lists, which don’t often accommodate a cycle of introspective reflection and reevaluation. This is why this period can be so brutal for some of us — especially those of us with determined steely goals and agendas.

Mercury, as most of us know, tends to play havoc with the smooth functioning of the technology upon which we depend for our achievements and communication. It also tends to mix up face to face communications and the best laid plans of wo/men. The results are
interruptions, snafus, misunderstandings, and mix-ups which interfere with the simplest of projects.

During Mercury in Retrograde, we will need more caution, more care, and a pinch more elbow grease to get things done. This is not a good time to launch or initiate new projects. In trying to do so, we will be pushing off, symbolically, just when the tide is going out, and it will be more of a struggle to make headway with our plans. It is far better to wait until the current is moving with us.

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The degree to which we hold onto our need to keep to our schedules, agendas, and plans often equates to the degree in which we find ourselves going bonkers during this time. When we doggedly hold on to our logical, rational structures, we court the “Trickster” element of Mercury, which will fool and frustrate us to no end.

Now is the time that we must surrender our forward leaning push and embrace the lessons of letting go. We must not underestimate the degree to which our psyche can resist change. The abdication of our will/ego to a deeper function of consciousness can be quite a challenge
as the retrograde cycle continues. But there is great reward if we manage to do so.

This period is a great time to clear our minds. To go back and complete unfinished projects. To work on reconciling old issues. To tune into our dreams and unconscious thoughts. To listen to our inner wisdom. To open to new ways of thinking and perceiving.

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So rather than pushing against the cosmic current, let’s take a three week break from our hectic, breakneck speedy ways and allow ourselves to slow down. To summon up and sort out the past. To be in the moment. And to savor the NOW.

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The Queen welcomes questions concerning all issues of interest to women in their mature years. Send your inquiries to thequeenofmyself@aol.com.

  • http://TheSoulopreneur.com Schelli Whitehouse

    Thank you for this wonderful reminder to slow down and appreciate what we’ve already accomplished and to reflect on our dreams and purpose before heading off at breakneck speed for the next ‘milestone’ accomplishment.
    I especially needed this reminder as my new website has several birth defects that have the techno doctors totally baffled! …sigh…

  • Maria Baez

    http://www.holisticgloberadio.com
    Hi Donna, I received your book and i must say it’s delightful.. this book is valuable for all ages (i’m 33 and it fits!) who are trying to define themself and their lives purpose …i send you love and light…Maria

  • http://www.DonnaHenes.net Donna Henes

    Schelli – Good luck with your new website, but don’t stress the techno stuff till after this retrograde period. It will probably be easier to fix then. Take the moment to congratulate yourself for having gotten this far!

  • http://www.DonnaHenes.net Donna Henes

    Thanks, Maria. I am so glad that the Queen resonates with you. It is never too early to step into your sovereignty! I return your light and love.

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