Friends have been concerned about my well-being since my husband died. ”How will you get along without someone in the house?” is the most common question. In reality, I think they are asking, “How will you survive the quiet?”
Even though the Bible tells believers to “Be still,” at least eight times, we seem to think that noise is more holy than quietness. We love to sing and quote, “Be still and know that I am God.” Yet, our modern-day living screams another message. Too often, we do not teach the truth of the benefits of a quiet, spirit life.
From the hum of traffic that seeps through our windows to the murmur of our TV’s which continually stimulates our minds, we are almost never bathed by quiet. While peace is not the same thing as quiet, it is perhaps impossible to be quiet without God’s inner peace reigning in our spirits.
- Set aside a time each day to quietly sit or lay before the Lord. Prayer and listening are different disciplines from quietness. While God usually speaks to an active mind, waiting for the Lord in a quiet setting prepares us to hear from the Lord.
- Start with small bites of times. Thirty minutes are much too long. Don’t even attempt it. Begin with one minute. That minute will seem like an eternity at first. But you will find that progressing to 5 minutes will be easier than that initial 60 seconds. After you develop a set-aside time and you faithfully follow it, you will crave a quiet time.
- During the day, eliminate as much background noise as you can. Turn off the TV, if you aren’t watching a specific program.
- Don’t let praise and worship music become a distraction from your quiet times. Again, praise and worship are different from being still and quiet.
- During these times, harness your thoughts. Be sure that thoughts of the Lord’s goodness and thankfulness are immersing your mind.