Prayer, Plain and Simple

Prayer, Plain and Simple


A Prayer for Domestic Violence

posted by Mark Herringshaw

Shocked, sickened, grieved….

At the moment I’m sitting in my Caribou Coffee shop trying to collect myself. I come here most Monday mornings, and over the months have struck up friendships with several regulars. Five minutes ago Gayle, who works behind the counter walked over to me and pointed to the front page of Friday’s St. Paul Pioneer Press. I’d read the article over the weekend but the name and face hadn’t registered. “Do you recognize her?” she asked me. I paused and looked at the pictures of Pamela Taschuk and Allen Taschuk beside the headline, “Lino Lakes man kills his wife, then himself.” “She comes in here all the time, and talks and laughs with that group of retired guys who always sit around the fireplace. Can you believe it?” she said, shaking his head. Suddenly, the woman’s face looked vividly familiar to me; the tragedy hit home. “God, help her son, Gayle mumbled as she walked back to pour another cup of coffee for the next person in line.

I read the article again, this time with a sickened heart and far more focus. The report said that Pamela Taschuk had recently complained to officials that she feared her husband who had a violent history might kill her. “Allen is like the guys in the stories you (hear) where the wife leaves the husband and then he kills her,” Pamela Taschuk told police the day she filed for divorce. On Thursday last week, she stopped by the Anoka County attorney’s office to check on the legal case against her husband. Later that evening, she attended a support group for domestic-abuse victims and within two hours of arriving home was dead. The Taschuks leave behind a sixteen year old son.

I’m prompted to pray – for this grieving and confused young man, for their extended family and friends, and then for all the women suffering in similar situations. Domestic violence is epidemic. Let’s join together now and ask for the tempering peace of God to intervene – at this moment – in the thousands of individual relationships poisoned by the threats and fears of violence. Please join me in this prayer. If you know of someone personally who needs God’s saving hand, add your own words below…  

“God of peace, there are many places and many people who do not experience your peace. Right now there are many, many women and children who live under the dark weight of the fear of violence right in their own homes. We pray for your protection, and for wisdom for friends and officials to help bring that right protection to them. We pray for the many men who themselves feel powerless and confused about their relationships. We ask that you would help them find healthy ways to work out their frustrations and to find hope without resorting to destructive impulses. God, work in our country to stem this epidemic. We ask for your perfect peace…”



  • Vincent Brown

    I reach out to the chritian saints against this evil spirit of arguing and domestic violence seeking to destroy my home and family.We thank you.

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  • virgen maria barta

    beautiful……thanku

  • Regina Maspero

    I have this fear and have not left because if it in 11 years. God grant me strength.

    • Allison

      Regina,
      My heart and prayers are with you. I took my two toddler sons and left my husband a few months ago after a violent encounter. My boys witnessed the entire event. I have so much guilt and shame that they were exposed to such a terrifying ordeal, but I’m so grateful that The Lord got the 3 of us out and to a safe place. I pray the God will present an opportunity where you have a safe window of opportunity to get out. My heart aches for you , and I will keep you in my prayers. May God watch over you and keep you safe always.

      With love in Christ,
      A

    • Allison

      Hi Regina,
      I just wanted you to know you’ve been weighing heavily on my heart and mind. I pray that today you are full of hope, strength, and surrounded by the light of The Lord. Remember that you are strong, and our abusers want us to feel weak and helpless. Please know that someone out here cares and you are not alone.

      Peace for you
      A

  • Crystal

    I have this fear every single day. After 6yrs and not even married I have such a big heart and can’t bring myself to leave him. I love him with all my heart. He takes everything out on me. But its all my fault. Please help me pray he will stop please

  • Car

    Ladies, if you need help, please call toll free to 1-877-733-1990 now. This is an organization in SE Indiana, but will help anyone who calls. They can help you plan your next steps and get you the help you need. You do not need to stay in an abusive relationship! Lots of prayers will be sent up for you all!

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