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Crisis pregnancy group reflects Jewish divide on abortion

By DEBRA RUBIN
c. 2011 Religion News Service

SILVER SPRING, Md. (RNS) Saraleah was 19 and a part-time student when she discovered she was pregnant. She didn’t know how it could have happened — until she flashed back to a party nine weeks earlier where she was given a drink, realized it was vodka and then passed out.

Saraleah had been raped.

“I was in shock and felt like my life was over,” she wrote in an email, asking that her full name not be used. “I was very scared because i had nothing and was trying to figure out how i was going to support myself AND the baby.”

Abortion was never an option, she said. She looked into adoption, but ultimately decided she wanted to prove herself as a mother. Her rabbi’s wife referred her to In Shifra’s Arms, a suburban Washington, D.C., nonprofit that provides assistance to pregnant Jewish women in crisis.

Erica Pelman founded ISA — named for Shifra, one of the midwives who saved Hebrew babies from Pharaoh in the biblical Exodus story — after a friend found herself pregnant in 2005 and was planning to get an abortion.

“She was sobbing. I started crying,” Pelman recalled. “I felt so hopeless to offer her some other alternative. It was just heartbreaking.”

That phone call haunted Pelman, who previously worked in the Department of Labor’s Center for Faith-Based and Community Initiatives.

“It didn’t even occur to me at the time how many Jewish families would have wanted that baby,” she said.

In 2009, she recruited a board to create a nonprofit to provide a Jewish alternative to Christian crisis pregnancy centers. The goal: providing counseling, financial planning, employment and educational assistance, information on Jewish adoptions, rabbinic counseling and even maternity and baby clothes.

One thing ISA doesn’t provide, however, is information or referrals for abortion, which has angered some Jews. A full 84 percent of U.S. Jews support legalized abortion in all or most cases, according to the 2007 Pew Religious Landscape Survey.

Jewish law is mostly ambiguous on abortion, allowing for the physical life (and sometimes the emotional health) of the woman to take precedence over the life of the fetus.

“The baseline is that abortion is prohibited by Jewish law, but every situation is unique and different and needs to be looked at with great care and sensitivity,” said Rabbi Shmuel Herzfeld of Washington’s Ohev Shalom — The National Synagogue, and a rabbinic adviser to ISA.

“Some rabbis are more lenient than others are with what constitutes the health of the mother being in danger.”

The group has rabbinic advisers from more liberal denominations, as well, said Pelman, who is Orthodox.

ISA came under fire in the blogosphere last year for linking to what its critics charged was misleading and negative information about abortion. The nonprofit group has since removed that link.

“It was distracting,” Pelman said, noting that if a woman chooses abortion, “we want to her to know if there is trauma afterward, we will refer her to post-abortion help.”

She recognizes that implying abortion is traumatic is itself controversial: “No matter what we do, somebody is going to say we’re doing it wrong.”

Rabbi Peter Stein of Temple Sinai in Cranston, R.I., is among ISA’s detractors, criticizing the group for its use of the term “your baby,” rather than the medical term “fetus.” That’s too narrow a perspective of Jewish law, he said.

“It doesn’t seem to recognize the challenges and reasons why some women would choose to end an unwanted pregnancy,” said Stein, who’s active in the Religious Coalition for Reproductive Choice.

He and others point to an ISA link to an abortion information page provided by the traditionalist group Aish HaTorah, which Rabbi Bonnie Margulis (who also is affiliated with RCRC) describes as a group that “tries to convince non-Orthodox to become Orthodox.”

Pelman’s all-volunteer team audited training courses offered by the Rockville (Md.) Pregnancy Clinic, which was founded by a group of churches with the aim of providing “positive alternatives to abortion for women facing unplanned pregnancies.”

With the help of a volunteer social worker and doctors, ISA’s program includes information on birthing centers, health care, housing lists, adoption information and couples counseling. Care packages for expectant moms include Jewish books on pregnancy and childbirth, along with practical items like Preggie Pops designed to help ease nausea.

“We will be here to offer support every step of the way, through the birth and for a year afterward,” says Pelman, 31, who believes ISA is the only Jewish group of its kind in the United States.

The all-volunteer ISA remains an online center, with a telephone helpline that operates on a limited schedule. So far, Pelman’s group has worked with just a handful of women, including Saraleah.

Pelman believes the non-Orthodox Jewish community has made abortion too acceptable, and aims to bring more Jewish babies into the world. Using abortion statistics from Planned Parenthood and the 2000 National Jewish Population Survey, she estimates Jewish women undergo some 10,000 abortions annually.

“If we’re able to make a difference to people who might want to keep their baby,” said Herzfeld, the rabbinic adviser, “that is a great way to add to the strength of the Jewish people.”



  • http://AddaURLtothiscomment nnmns

    Good for the Jews of America. On the whole they seem to be more objective and rational on abortion than the Christians of America.

  • http://AddaURLtothiscomment pagansister

    Agree with your statements, nnmns. They seem to have a much more rational approach.

  • http://AddaURLtothiscomment cknuck

    The whole rape thing counts for almost none of the millions of abortions performed in this country and the Jewish law is not ambiguous about abortion remember “thy shalt not kill’?

  • http://AddaURLtothiscomment nnmns

    “Thou shalt not kill.” refers to people. And of course we kill people through our governments regularly. Whether it refers to zygotes or blastocysts or embryos or fetuses is a political decision. Even some of the early popes didn’t consider abortion before quickening murder. And too many people would happily take the right for any abortion away from all women and families.

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  • http://JuadismandAbortion Yosefjason

    The issue of abortion and Jewish is law is complicated. On a side note the reform Rabbi’s criticism of Aish is the cry of the weak. Aish and other Kiruv organizations are trying to get Jews to be more Observant and stay Jewish. Reform Judaism’s roots were “If we just act like the non-Jews and eat non-kosher food on Yom Kippor they won’t hate us”. By the way that started in Germany-worked out real well. Each Reform Rabbi has their own interpretations. If you ask what reform stands for you get a list of no’s We don’t believe this, we don’t believe that….
    I am not saying Orthodoxy is perfect but at least it stands for something and is G-D centered. Orthodox Jews try to live all aspects fo their life in a G-D centered way, we don’t treat Judaism as just another part of our life, like what we like to eat or do for fun.

    Generally Jewish law is not about rights but obligations.

    For instance in the case of a woman who’s life is endangered by a Pregnancy she doesn’t have a right to an abortion but an obligation. The obligation allows the Doctor to perform the abortion. Under Jewish law the baby and mother are not equal until the head appears during birth, then they are equal and no abortion is allowed. It is considered” a matter for heaven” since you have to equal humans.

    In recent years as Orthodoxy has turned to the right there has been a hardening on the abortion issue publicly, but for individual cases it is still between the woman, her Rabbi and G-D.

    As for the idea that abortion has no after effects most people who had abortions would say it does (I have been told this by women who have had abortions).

  • http://AddaURLtothiscomment nnmns

    “In recent years as Orthodoxy has turned to the right there has been a hardening on the abortion issue publicly, but for individual cases it is still between the woman, her Rabbi and G-D.”

    I’d hope her Rabbi stays out of it except to support the decision of the woman and perhaps the family. But certainly the government needs to stay out of it.

    “Under Jewish law the baby and mother are not equal until the head appears”

    This makes perfect sense.

  • http://AddaURLtothiscomment cknuck

    nnmns no matter what you may want to call them “Whether it refers to zygotes or blastocysts or embryos or fetuses is a political decision.” they are people not anything else, they are not dogs, cats or squirrels they are people. You people are funny who believe so coldly, on the one hand you forge a belief that we all came from some ooze, slime or earth spit and were allowed to grow and abound but on the other hand that a baby in its beginning is not human and should be wiped out at will by a stronger being of the same origins? not so bright.

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