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Working to Free Yourself from Negative Influences

posted by Guy Finley

Question: I am at work sometimes as much as I am at home. How do we avoid the negative influences of others in the workplace? Answer: The whole point is not that we avoid what are unavoidable, difficult conditions, but […]

Stop Giving the Past the Power to Pull You Down

posted by Guy Finley

  The past is as powerless to darken the present moment, as is a shadow to reach up and drag down the form that casts it…

Revealed: The “Anti-Change Factor” (Conclusion)

posted by Guy Finley

On the surface, meaning seen through the eyes of the self caught up in a negative reaction, resistance to an unwanted revelation about oneself makes “sense” — as in when we “eject” an intruding pest from our house. But, as […]

Revealed: The “Anti-Change Factor” (Part 1)

posted by Guy Finley

It isn’t something of which most of us are aware, but we human beings are “marked” with a certain strange feature: and that is…we want to change. Perhaps you’re thinking: “What’s so strange about that?” After all, who amongst us […]

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Sharing Your Spiritual Work with Your Children
Question: Any thoughts on what is a good way to share my spiritual work with my kids? Answer: Be as consciously kind as you can be, which means to not express (but watch instead) your negative states. Be as encouraging as possible without producing false hope. Speak the truth at all times without

posted 3:00:44am Jan. 28, 2015 | read full post »

Remaining Conscious Around Others
Question: The more I think I know about true spirituality, the more I become easily aggravated by the behavior of others when I hear them make an obviously false (spiritually) statement, or I observe their inconsistent behavior. I sense that part of my anger is seeing the inconsistency and false beh

posted 12:00:57pm Jan. 27, 2015 | read full post »

Caregiving Aging Parents
Question: My father has had cancer for about two years. Neither of us talk about dying. When a nurse asked him about dying, he said he was afraid he wouldn't go to heaven. I would like to help in some way, but I'm also afraid to talk to him about it and I don't really know what I would say. Answe

posted 12:00:22pm Jan. 26, 2015 | read full post »

The Breeding Ground of Self-Defeat
Stress, anxiety, and tension are the dark jewels adorning a thorny crown we must wear whenever we try to live more than one moment at a time…  

posted 12:00:50pm Jan. 23, 2015 | read full post »

(Audio) Stop Looking For Trouble and You Won't Find It
In this short talk, Guy Finley talks about the importance of being present to ourselves, especially when the mind seeks to identify with something so that it can feel disturbed. [audio mp3="http://www.beliefnet.com/columnists/lettinggo/files/2015/01/20141102_stop_looking.mp3"][/audio]

posted 12:00:11pm Jan. 22, 2015 | read full post »


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