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Helping Others to Start Healing

posted by Guy Finley

The only way we begin to act as a true force of healing in the lives of others is when, at last, we cease to hurt ourselves.

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Stop Enabling and Take Possession of Your Self

posted by Guy Finley

The person who enables another human being believes the only choice they have is to somehow keep that person in line, save that person from themselves — not for the good of the other human being but because the enabler, […]

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Let Love Teach You About a Greater Love

posted by Guy Finley

In its essence, every relationship in life between you and another man or woman is a reflection of the one relationship that produces it. There is one relationship that is the father, the mother of all relationships — just as […]

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Enter a World Where Goodness is Its Own Reward

posted by Guy Finley

Once we see it’s impossible to please ourselves at the expense of the pain of someone else, we are released from the cycle of seeking a false comfort whose conflict compromises “winners” and “losers” alike. Only then are we free […]

Being in the World but Not of It

posted by Guy Finley

If we really lived in this world as it is, there would be no war. If I really lived with the person that I was married to, if I really lived with the children that I have… it would be […]

The Beginning of Self-Command

posted by Guy Finley

It is impossible to lash out at another person without having first hurt yourself. We will never be in command of ourselves until we feel the blow that we would give. Once we begin to feel the blow we would […]

How to Begin the Good Work of Letting Go

posted by Guy Finley

If you would like to begin in earnest the good work of letting go of dark, self-punishing states, start here:  Never give to another person a slice of any mental or emotional state of yours that you have not taken […]

The Gift of Bringing Light into the Life of Another

posted by Guy Finley

Whenever we can remember that we would rather smile about what life brings us than suffer over it — that our natural preference is happiness, not hurtfulness — then in such moments of being mindful of what we love most […]

A Better Alternative to Being Sorry

posted by Guy Finley

Far better than being someone who is always sorry for what their being has brought to pass in the life of others is to start, instead, the difficult interior work of actually changing our being . . . so that […]

The Truth about Oneness

posted by Guy Finley

The truth of our oneness with life only starts to become real for us as we awaken to see that in hurting others, we have also hurt ourselves, and — that whenever we hurt ourselves — others suffer. *** There […]

(Audio) Awaken to a New and Higher World Within Yourself

posted by Guy Finley

In this short talk, Guy Finley talks about how a higher awareness of “our world” makes it impossible to punish, judge or be against another person. Click here to listen to this podcast “Awaken to a New and Higher World […]

Why Being Worried Doesn’t Work

posted by Guy Finley

Stressful worry helps no one — not those we are concerned about, and certainly not us. Such worry heals nothing; instead, it hurts all who mistake its dark embrace as a path to empowerment. The only thing worry serves is […]

(Audio) Use Unkind Acts to Help Create a New World

posted by Guy Finley

In this podcast, Guy Finley talks about how we can use everything that we encounter in our relationships with others to change ourselves.

Rising Above the Unconscious Fear of Being Yourself

posted by Guy Finley

QUESTION Why is it that when it comes to others, I don’t say what I feel until I am irritated? Then I don’t care what I say to get my point across! 

Previous Posts

The Power to Solve Any Problem Before It Begins
Your true self is a creative silence, a ground of perfect stillness from which all disturbances appear and to which they return if left alone. The clearer this revelation becomes, the more confident you become that being still is the same as the ...

posted 12:00:40pm Apr. 27, 2015 | read full post »

Love's Healing Touch
We cannot separate the problems of this world—including the pain endured in agreeing to honor, respect, and support those we love—from the awakening of a patience and kindness that can be born in us no other way. ...

posted 12:00:10pm Apr. 24, 2015 | read full post »

(Video) Four Words for Any Family Crisis
Guy Finley reveals and explains the four words that will always aid you and those around you in any stressful family situation. [youtube]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VFeMInPYahc[/youtube] ...

posted 12:00:21pm Apr. 23, 2015 | read full post »

Helping Others to Start Healing
The only way we begin to act as a true force of healing in the lives of others is when, at last, we cease to hurt ourselves. ...

posted 12:00:21pm Apr. 22, 2015 | read full post »

Learn to Relax with Others by Releasing Yourself
Here’s a simple but ultimately very self-liberating action to take if you wish to reduce the amount of stress and anxiety that you feel in the company of others, friends, or family: Choose to be more interested in quietly discovering the ...

posted 12:00:18pm Apr. 21, 2015 | read full post »

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