In this short talk, Guy Finley explains why it is necessary to encounter our own so-called “limitations” if we ever want to discover the real source of higher strength that already exists within us.
Starting to think differently towards your own fears is the same as learning to act differently towards them. Use these ten truths to help you begin thinking fearlessly. Higher actions will follow.
1. When you find that one part of yourself that wants freedom from fear more than it wants the freedom fear promises, you’ve found the real beginning of the end of fear.
2. An awakened consciousness never fears losing control because it never gives itself away.
3. Self-awakening starts with catching yourself having been spiritually sound asleep.
4. Let go of any fearful inner state by shaking yourself awake from the self created dream that produced it.
5. The one thing that really puts the scare into what’s been frightening you is your conscious decision to be no one.
6. Nothing in your life can be anymore complete than you are.
7. Your awareness of any fearful disturbance must precede your freedom from it; this is the one True Order upon which self rescue is founded.
8. No punishing thought or lonely feeling belongs to you, so start seeing their presence as the unreal, rude intrusion that they are.
9. Don’t be afraid to tell anything that’s frightening you to get out of your life.
10. Waking up to the power of the free mind is the same as waking up to all that you are intended to be.
The fall of fear begins with our heightened awareness of fear’s presence. Out of this higher level of self consciousness comes something as mysterious as it is grand: the spiritual intolerance of fear. This deep, nonnegotiable disdain for fear comes to us in advance of the powers we need to win our freedom from it. And the arrival of this supreme strength — that ultimately leads to lasting self-liberation — is one of the great mysteries surrounding our true nature. The following story illustrates the victorious powers we invoke when we take a stand against fear.
I once saw a great western movie where a good sheriff had given up on the people of his frontier town. They were cowards. Not a one would take a stand against a band of evil-hearted bullies that had corrupted the whole territory. Frightened and defeated by events that seemed beyond his powers, the sheriff took to the bottle to hide from his own fears. Life was miserable. There was no peace for anyone.
Also living in this same troubled town was a quiet stranger — a man who didn’t even own a gun, let alone know how to use one. But came a fateful day when, despite his deep and moral hatred of confrontation, he knew he could no longer hide. His life had become intolerable. It was painfully clear there was no living with himself if that meant he’d have to live the rest of his days in terror.
And so, even though he couldn’t get either the sheriff or the townspeople to stand with him, he called the bad men out into the street for a showdown. The next few scenes of this film were just tremendous. Let’s review them to see what secret insights they hold, and how they can help us win our own showdown with fear.
Just as it looked as though this hapless and helpless stranger was about to be cruelly gunned down to the ground, the unbelievable took place. All of a sudden, from all around him, shots rang out. A rain of bullets poured into the gang of murderous thugs. The quiet stranger was saved. And what about the bad men? Defeated once and for all in this showdown at high noon, it was the end of their reign of terror. But, what happened? How had good been empowered to win the day? Here’s the story behind the scenes.
Rallied by the courage of the stranger in the face of impossible odds, the sheriff and townspeople were moved to a change of heart. And when they came to his rescue, they gave him the powers he didn’t have himself, but that he needed to win his struggle with evil. A happy ending to be sure. But this inspiring story from the days of the old west also reveals how your true nature can run any bullying fear out of your life.
When you can no longer bear being pushed around by fears that never leave you alone, challenge them to show themselves to you. Call them out into the light, just like the quiet stranger did at high noon. Never mind if this makes you tremble. Those, and any other shakes, will be vanquished along with the rest of the inner villains by the friendly, but all powerful forces of your higher nature.
There is an order between power, principle, and practice. Before we can have relationship with power — Peace, Beauty, Kindness, Love — we must first become an embodiment of principle. And in order to become an embodiment of principle, we must practice it. The only way for us to know there is a world above us that would perfect us is if we will put ourselves in relationship with its powers through practicing them.
There is an integration that takes place when we practice what we love. As we work to embody these higher powers in our life, we are united with them. A marriage takes place within us that lessens the distance between that power and our purpose to be one with it. Surrendering self is how we end the separation between ourselves and that all-powerful Love for which we long. Only to the degree that we perfect our love in God do we come to realize oneness, and only God can perfect our love in Him.
Each moment of the day, no matter what comes your way, let what you remember as being true about Love always be your guide. Never let darkness, dismay — any of the things that attend the mind — be your guide. If you are sincere in your wish, and willing to work with practice to embrace principle, to discover what is necessary to put you in relationship — in alignment with a higher order — you will enter into God’s life, which is the one life.
Practice this oneness. Anyone can do it. You don’t need strength. You don’t need wisdom. You don’t need anything except for the wish to be a part of that Greater Life to which you have been called.