Letting Go with Guy Finley

Letting Go with Guy Finley

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Outgrowing the Bitterness of Feeling Betrayed

posted by Guy Finley

At least twice a month I receive an email or letter telling me how much anger and hatred the person is feeling towards someone who betrayed them in some way…and asking how on earth can it be possible to live […]

Start Giving Yourself What You Really Want

posted by Guy Finley

It’s a little known secret that our experience of life in any given moment is a direct reflection of what we actually value in that same moment. We may deny this unsettling truth but, when it comes to what we […]

It Is Never Too Late to Change

posted by Guy Finley

It is never too late to change one’s life. Never. In fact, the only thing that wants us to believe that all has been for naught is the un-reconciled negative nature that needs us to continue serving it with feelings […]

The First Lesson in Owning Your Own Life

posted by Guy Finley

QUESTION What’s wrong with knowing that someone or something outside of me is responsible for making me feel unhappy?

Previous Posts

Don't Get Dragged Down by the Dark States of Others
Hoping to help someone -- who loves to be negative -- see the harm of being identified with dark states, is like trying to teach a bat to appreciate sunlight, or a mud hen to preen in fresh clean waters.

posted 3:00:15am Oct. 30, 2014 | read full post »

How to Stop the Spiritually Sick from Infecting You
No person is good or bad in and of himself, any more than a trumpet is good or bad for the music sounded out of its horn. It is the “player,” the musician behind the mouthpiece who determines these qualities by his selection of song and the manner of performance. The same principle holds true

posted 3:00:15am Oct. 29, 2014 | read full post »

Working to Free Yourself from Negative Influences
Question: I am at work sometimes as much as I am at home. How do we avoid the negative influences of others in the workplace? Answer: The whole point is not that we avoid what are unavoidable, difficult conditions, but that we recognize the discomfort we feel belongs to our own resistance to thes

posted 3:00:59am Oct. 28, 2014 | read full post »

Reject Soul-Destructive Energies
There are many un-illumined and downward trending parts in all of us that not only seek out their unconscious counterparts (in others) but that are secretly strengthened in the conflicted company of such dark and negative energies. We can see the truth of this strange spiritual condition by bearing

posted 3:00:25am Oct. 27, 2014 | read full post »

Stop Cooking Your Own Goose!
Any time you sit, think about, and "stew" over what someone did to you, or simmer in anger about some past event, the real reason for your pain is because you're cooking your own goose!

posted 3:00:59am Oct. 24, 2014 | read full post »


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