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When I look at you, I am looking at me . . . In a time or place I have been, or will be.  

If only we would cease giving others Reasons to resist our presence, Bear ourselves With what we burden them, Leaving no reason for blame . . . Then . . . that great silent rage Hidden in the human heart […]

In this video blog by Guy Finley learn the higher benefit of discovering that the purpose of every relationship is to connect us to authentic growth through the understanding that who we have been, and what we have done in […]

QUESTION I am having trouble understanding how to leave relationships with my friends and family alone. It seems that the changes I feel are affecting them, but neither they nor I understand some of these changes. It is an extremely […]

QUESTION Can a loving, true friendship between a man and a woman exist without physical attraction or sexual desire? Is this kind of love impossible?

There is so much that needs to be done today, but I can’t do anything other than sit here, wonder where it is You have gone with my heart, and long to be with You as in our yesterday. It […]

There is one essential ingredient missing in most of our relationships — one that is definitely required if we wish to continue in our own development and help others to do the same. What is this powerful catalyst that only […]

There never seems enough time to make full reparations for the wrong we do to another in a moment of careless speech, so wouldn’t it be wise to take time — before we speak — to ensure that whatever we’re […]

QUESTION I know it’s a mistake looking to someone else for a sense of myself, but how can I keep from giving myself away?

If we wish to live without resentments that linger in our hearts and rid ourselves of fear with all of its debilitating limitations, we must shed the skin of our selfishness. We must learn what it means to consciously suffer […]