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Letting Go with Guy Finley

Letting Go with Guy Finley

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Stop Enabling and Take Possession of Your Self

posted by Guy Finley

The person who enables another human being believes the only choice they have is to somehow keep that person in line, save that person from themselves — not for the good of the other human being but because the enabler, […]

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Drop the Weight of False Responsibilities

posted by Guy Finley

A lot of what goes wrong on this planet is born of people who feel the weight of false responsibilities. Enabling another human being is a form of a false responsibility. Anyone who lives with someone who abuses them enables […]

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Break the Bad Habit of Bargaining for Love

posted by Guy Finley

We never enable someone else without having first disabled our own Higher Nature that knows better than to bargain for friendship, love — or to just feel “needed” in some way…

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Keys to Real Self-Change

posted by Guy Finley

Question: Resolving to change comes easy, but the will necessary to keep promises to myself soon fizzle. At other times, when life gives me a good blow, change is no longer optional, and resolve becomes quite effortless. How can I […]

(Audio) What Would Happen if Suddenly Everyone in the World Said, “I Love You”

posted by Guy Finley

Guy Finley explains why it would be wise to become highly suspicious of the parts of ourselves that endlessly seek the approval of other people.

Stop Being Washed Away by Negative States

posted by Guy Finley

Most of us have found ourselves washed away, overcome by a flood of punishing thoughts and feelings. Picture a desperate man being swept down a river, grabbing onto whatever comes along, and it’s easy to see how we end up […]

Free Yourself From Temptation

posted by Guy Finley

Question: I have been working with the non-resistant approach to a troubling habit. As I work, it seems that every time temptation attacks, it lasts for shorter durations of time and doesn’t attack as often. Will the temptation eventually cease […]

How to Stop Smoking

posted by Guy Finley

Question: Do you have a recommendation for how to stop smoking? I need some advice about freedom from the inner voices that tempt me. Answer: There is an important principle at the root of all true spiritual teachings, and it […]

Nothing Can Stop You From Starting Over

posted by Guy Finley

We can be new now, if we’re first fed up inwardly with our old, false nature; and secondly if we’re willing to really let go of this nature as we understand what that means. That’s what our higher studies are […]

Food for Thought

posted by Guy Finley

The first purpose of the food we eat is to provide us with the best possible fuel needed for our interior and exterior work. The second purpose of food is to remind us that whatever we’re given to nourish ourselves […]

The Courage to Be Free

posted by Guy Finley

QUESTION Guy, the title of your new book, The Courage to Be Free, raises an immediate question. Why does it take courage to be free?

For Love to Last…

posted by Guy Finley

Don’t try to please each other, for each of you has constantly changing pleasures.  Instead, strive to please love, and in this you will please what is capable of being loved in each other. This understanding alone nourishes your love, […]

Previous Posts

Stop Justifying Negative States
We rarely see how, or when we act against ourselves – or others – because of how instantly, easily we agree to identify with a legion of sleep-inducing thoughts and feelings that appear to serve one purpose: to justify a dark and ...

posted 12:00:14pm Aug. 03, 2015 | read full post »

Realize the Perfect Sense of Safety
There's only one way to realize the perfect sense of safety and unshakable contentment that comes with quietly knowing you're first on God's "list" . . . And that's to remember, at all times, your wish (and the work) it takes to place the needs ...

posted 12:00:43pm Jul. 31, 2015 | read full post »

(Audio) Find Safety and Security in Love's Unfailing Order
In this brief audio clip, bestselling author Guy Finley says that we experience unnecessary pain in this life because we value the wrong things. [audio ...

posted 12:00:19pm Jul. 30, 2015 | read full post »

Remember the Silent Force
Question: Where do we look for the power we need to be happy and safe? Answer: Look for this power not in a person, place, possession, idea, or belief, but through the new understanding that your higher, permanent nature needs no power ...

posted 12:00:37pm Jul. 29, 2015 | read full post »

Put the Truth First
Always remember when you work with powerful truthful ideas such as we study here that there are many temporarily unknown parts of yourself that may try to mislead you. They know that your growing true spiritual insight will lead you away from ...

posted 12:00:12pm Jul. 28, 2015 | read full post »

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