Letting Go with Guy Finley

Letting Go with Guy Finley

May 2011 Archives

Finding True Compassion for Others (and Ourselves)

posted by Guy Finley

Question: Recently a relative asked to live with us. The moment we heard from her, I sensed she was to help me with something. Two weeks later we were talking, she started to cry, and said she had had an […]

Suicide is No Escape from Pain

posted by Guy Finley

Any human being who takes his or her own life not only fails to escape the pain that drove them to this act, but insures that even on the other side they will continue to experience this conflict in their […]

How to Know Which Thoughts and Feelings are Your Friends

posted by Guy Finley

You possess unsuspected powers of perception just waiting to be awakened. There’s a way to know, without ever having to think about it, exactly which of your own thoughts and feelings are your friends, and which are foes… a totally […]

The Secret Prayer that Renews Your Life

posted by Guy Finley

The kind of prayer most commonly understood and practiced is asking for what you want and being temporarily filled with — and renewed by — both the self making that request and the anticipation of what is requested. Examples of […]

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(Video) Real Love Does Not Enable
Guy Finley explains what real love is and what it isn't, and notes that it is impossible for you to genuinely love another person if you cannot first be completely content and comfortable with being alone. [youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fxuv3Yicgh0&list=UUTGc_OGLcE1zQ1HpyyNKrKA[/yout

posted 3:00:06am Nov. 20, 2014 | read full post »

Stop Enabling and Take Possession of Your Self
The person who enables another human being believes the only choice they have is to somehow keep that person in line, save that person from themselves -- not for the good of the other human being but because the enabler, without knowing it, believes that without the other person in their life, they

posted 3:00:15am Nov. 19, 2014 | read full post »

Drop the Weight of False Responsibilities
A lot of what goes wrong on this planet is born of people who feel the weight of false responsibilities. Enabling another human being is a form of a false responsibility. Anyone who lives with someone who abuses them enables the abusive behavior. If you live with someone who is cruel or physicall

posted 3:00:12am Nov. 18, 2014 | read full post »

Break the Bad Habit of Bargaining for Love
We never enable someone else without having first disabled our own Higher Nature that knows better than to bargain for friendship, love -- or to just feel "needed" in some way...

posted 3:00:14am Nov. 17, 2014 | read full post »

Freedom from the Prison of Negative States
Freedom from the prison of negative states remains impossible until one loses interest in the false, but powerful, sense of self derived from identifying with (one's own) surging sensations.

posted 3:00:19am Nov. 14, 2014 | read full post »


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