Lessons from a Recovering Doormat

Lessons from a Recovering Doormat


Law of Attraction in Action: What You Think Of Yourself

LOAlogoBLOGThis is post 290 in my series on the Law of Attraction in Action. You CAN use your power to manifest your desires. I do it every day! Read all the posts in my Law of Attraction in Action Series to see how.

Very often, your biggest roadblocks to achieving goals are the labels you put on yourself. What you think of you helps to attract what you get. If you think of yourself as:

•    Too fat to be worthy of attracting great people into your world
•    Too boring to attract the person you’d like to have a relationship with
•    Too inexperienced to audition for the part in a play you want
•    Too short to play basketball
•    Too old to change your career

If you have any of these kinds of beliefs they will block you from getting the things you say you want. These can be things you’ve heard from someone else or something you’ve always believed. When you think of yourself as a passionate, interesting, valuable, unique and genuine person, those positive expectations will help you manifest what you want
your life.Do you stand in your own way? Your expectations can greatly effect what you manifest. You can create roadblock by thinking of yourself as:

•    Not attractive enough to sing in clubs.
•    Too old to do what you want.
•    Too inexperienced to get the job you want
•    Not educated in the right school to advance in your career
•    The wrong sex for the career you want

When you begin to value all your positive attributes you can let go of negative beliefs about you. Write down all the good stuff about you as a reminder that you have a lot to offer.When you think of yourself ascreative, passionate, interesting, valuable, unique and genuine, those positive expectations will be reflected in your life.

Thinking highly of yourself doesn’t mean you have to be arrogant or egotiitistic. When you truly think highly of yourself, you’ll e prove those thoughts by what you attract.

You can be held back by your expectations, or encouraged forward by your expectations. Make the choice to be encouraged, inspired, motivated and compelled by the positive things you expect of yourself.

Sure, there are many difficult factors you’ll face in life. Don’t add your own negative expectations to those challenges. Why give the Law of Attraction ammo to use against you? Try to expect the best of yourself in every situation. And bring those expectations to the font of your thoughts so the Law of Attraction can help you manifest what you want. Remember, your thoughts attract what you get. Make them good thoughts!

See all the posts in my Law of Attraction in Action Series HERE.
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