Lessons from a Recovering Doormat

Lessons from a Recovering Doormat

A Message from Archangel Michael

I’m delighted tJoy Pederseno have my friend and Self-Love Ambassador,  Dr. Joy S. Pedersen, CEO and Founder of Express Success,, as my guest today. She’s a Licensed Spiritual Healer and Certified Spiritual Health Coach and Doctor of Divinity, who channels God, angels and others through automatic writing. Dr. Pedersen shares channeled messages regularly through She has a book coming out that she channeled from Archangel Michael, called Wisdom of the Guardian: Treasures From Archangel Michael to Change Your Life. She recently channeled Archangel Michael who asked her to get a message out about self-love.  His message is below:


Self Love
Channeled by Dr. Joy S. Pedersen at request of Archangel Michael January 20, 2014

You are a most precious child of the Creator loved beyond the imaginable.
What you do to yourselves, however, is often unloving. You treat your neighbors better than you do yourself many times.

I see your pain. I hear your anguish.
You want more for your lives but not sure how to get it. It starts with the love of self from within your own heart.9781450297035_COVER.indd


Treat yourself as the most important being on the planet. Put yourself first. Not in a selfish way but because you are honoring the self.

Life was not meant to be about self sacrifice. Self sacrifice has caused more harm to humanity than you would ever realize.

By denying the self, you deny the Creator within. By not putting yourself first and loving yourself enough, you deny the Creator and why He put you on this earth. He wants you to be, do and have what is possible for you by divine right. You deny yourself what the Creator has in store for you by not allowing yourself to be a priority.

If you won’t love yourself enough, please allow me to love you in your place. Honor yourself, your heart, your hopes and your dreams.


You deserve everything that you desire within your own heart. Deny yourself no longer. I am here with you as is your Creator. Peace be with you. Archangel Michael

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