Lessons from a Recovering Doormat

Lessons from a Recovering Doormat


Law of Attraction in Action: Pure Wanting

This is post 231 in my series on the Law of Attraction in Action. You CAN use your power to manifest your desires.. I do it every day! Read all the posts in my Law of Attraction in Action Series to see how.

People often complain that they’re not getting what they want. But when it’s expressed in a complaint as opposed to feeling the good vibration of wanting something so much you can almost taste it, the Law of Attraction picks up on the complaint instead of the desire. Then it keeps what you want at bay as you keep feeling bad about getting what you want.

Wanting goodies is a good thing. Yet too often your desires come with baggage attached. You may feel selfish or greedy by wanting something really bad. Many of us grow up believing we should take care of others more than wanting things for ourselves. If you share what you want with friends or family you may hear words that can deter you from REALLY wanting your desires to be manifested:

•    “You want too much.”
•    “Do you realize how little I have and there you are wanting so much more?”
•    “You don’t deserve to get that.”
•    “Who do you think you are/”

But wanting really is okay. To get your vibration up you need to want your desire strongly. Wanting goodies is a good thing. It’s not selfish and you’re not wanting too much if it will make you happy.  You can manifest lots of goodies—I mean lots! The Universe is abundant. There’s lots of good for all of us. You don’t need to temper your desires to scale them to what you think you deserve or because you don’t want to be a pig about what you want to have. Get into OINK mode! I live in it.

There’s enough good for you to have LOTS. Want a lot. Get excited about getting what you want. Send that message for the Law of Attraction to pick up on. You deserve as much as you WANT. It’s okay. The Universe is open to giving you your desires WHEN you get any negative emotions off of your thoughts. So WANT a lot. Know that you deserve to get it. And let your thoughts reflect that. Then do the work and you’ll have as good a chance of getting it as your vibration allows.

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