Lessons from a Recovering Doormat

Lessons from a Recovering Doormat


Law of Attraction in Action: How Long Does Manifesting Take?

This is post 224 in my series on the Law of Attraction in Action. You CAN use your power to manifest your desires.. I do it every day! Read all the posts in my Law of Attraction in Action Series to see how.

People ask me how long it will take them to manifest what they put out to the Law of Attraction. There’s no definitive answer because it all depends on you. It’s different for everyone and for every desire. A bigger goal may take longer to reach, but it may not for some people. The short answer to how long does it take to manifest desires is: It will take as long or as short as it takes you to release your resistance to having it and then getting your vibration high.

If you have a lot of resistance it can take a while to let it go. But if you’re very willing to let it go and do everything you can to release it fast, then manifesting might happen sooner. Often your vibration will rise as your resistance goes down. When I’ve needed something badly, like a miracle for something that meant a lot to me, I was able to manifest in record time. And for things don’t have that kind of urgency, it’s taken longer.

So how long should it take? Ask yourself:

•    How badly do I want it?
•    Am I willing to let go of any resistance I have to having it?
•    Can I see it, feel it and almost taste having it already?
•    Am I very excited about getting it?
•    Am I willing to put what I want into God’s/the Universe’s hands and be faithful and patient that it will come at the perfect time?
•    And in my opinion, the most important question: Do I believe I can get it?

That last question tells you what message you’re really putting out to the Law of Attraction. If you want a lot more money, or a healthy, loving romantic partner, or a huge career opportunity, be honest about whether you think it’s possible for you to have it. Is your resistance because you don’t think you deserve it? Or were you told growing up that people like you don’t get far? Or have you had things go wrong in the past and don’t want to get your hopes up? All of this blocks you ability to manifest.

Manifesting a desire can take as long or as short as you allow. If you want to manifest a huge amount of money it can take longer to clear resistance and raise your vibration enough to get it than to attract a few extra dollars. If you’re not getting it in a timely message, ask yourself what resistance may be holding you back. The faster you can get your vibration up, the faster you’ll begin to manifest. It can take days, weeks, year or you may never get what you want if you don’t send the right message and vibration for the Law of Attraction to pick up on. But if you want if enough, it can also only take a day.

Make sure you’re totally aligned with getting what you say you want. When your thoughts are clear and your vibration is strong, miracles can happen.

See all the posts in my Law of Attraction in Action Series HERE.
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