Lessons from a Recovering Doormat

I’m thrilled to have Margaret M. Lynch as my guest today. And I’m delighted to announce that I’m writing my next book with her, called Why Don’t I Have More Money? It will be published next year by Tarcher/Penguin Books. Heralded as “The Tapping for Money Rock Star,” Margaret is an accomplished Success Coach and top Tapping [also known as Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT)], expert. Margaret delivers high-impact transformation that clears the inner blocks to wealth and success and creates the “on-fire enthusiasm and charisma” that is key to skyrocketing wealth.

Margaret’s videos and programs for clearing blocks to making money have made her known worldwide. Our book will be a comprehensive guide for clearing out whatever keeps you from having greater wealth and success so you can bring your gifts to the world for more money. For now, you can sign up for Margaret’s 4 FREE videos Mini Course and learn some of her secrets today. And, check out her newest program: Ignite Your Power, Manifest Your Wealth.

Lady Gaga Goes…Boring?
by Margaret M. Lynch

An issue of Rolling Stone magazine declared Lady Gaga goes minimalist. They summed up their review of the pop sensation’s video for her hit song, Edge of Glory,  as “boring!” Yes, boring, even though they describe the video in which she “struts in what looks like a dominatrix swimsuit.”  Rolling Stone says, “It’s Gaga’s tamest video to date; it’s also her bravest.  For once in her life, she flirts with the edge of boring.”

Wow, imagine that! Imagine being so fearlessly over-the-top outrageous on such a regular basis that performing in a “dominatrix swimsuit” gets called boring. Seriously!  Just as interesting, they seem to respect this toned down move as actually taking courage…for her, that is.

Let’s think about this for a minute, because this is what it looks like to carry incredible energetic power in your 3rd chakra!

The negative vow we make at the 3rd chakra is to be small, invisible, to serve instead of lead, and never, NEVER seem self-focused by standing out too much and touting our own horn. So we have established Lady Gaga does NOT have this vow. Just for a minute let’s put aside any judgment you may have about how over-the-top she is…and think about what that would be like.

How crazy, cool and fun would that be to be THAT free? To have that much courage to express yourself will absolutely feel like freedom. To have relief from the vows and the fears about standing out and saying, “I am a rock star in my mission!” Doesn’t that feel like incredible, intoxicating freedom?

Imagine if we could borrow about an eighth of that…even just an eighth…and step into that freedom, self-expression and 3rd chakra power. Oh yes, I will take an eighth, Gaga, and I won’t waste it, I promise. I will use that fearless big energy and blast it into my mission! Pretty cool, right?

Now imagine Rolling Stone or some other magazine calls you something…dumb, ugly, boring, weird. Something unkind. Now what? Third chakra strength means you DO NOT change or adjust who you are for ANYONE’S opinion. Do you think Gaga cares what they say? Sure it might hurt, but she’s NOT changing who she is and I am sure she does get over it! WOW, intense huh?

It’s interesting to take our personal fears about being seen and criticized and blowing them up to a whole bigger scale …to Gaga scale! Puts things into a fun and interesting perspective!

So my challenge to you this week is to take an eighth…a Gaga eighth and carry it, live in, enjoy it and feel the freedom and powerfulness of it. Give your third chakra the permission, maybe just for the day, to shine out like the sun from every pore in your body! Be fearless, uniquely YOU and let it be seen.

Remember, it is not actually required that you wear a dominatrix swimsuit—that part is optional!

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