Lessons from a Recovering Doormat

Lessons from a Recovering Doormat


Law of Attraction in Action: Your Response to Situations

This is post 192 in my series on the Law of Attraction in Action. You CAN use your power to manifest your desires.. I do it every day! Read all the posts in my Law of Attraction in Action Series to see how.

In order to get the Law of Attraction to help you manifest your response to situations is key, especially if you’re experiencing negative results for something you’re trying to achieve. Our normal tendency is to have a negative response—anger, disappointment, frustration, or a desire to give up and quit. That message comes back to you in ways that prevents you from getting what you want. Other responses, even when we’re on our way to manifest, is apathy, a lack of excitement, etc., which also can put the brakes on manifesting.

When your response is positive no matter what happens, you keep the manifesting channels open.

I like to say, “I don’t care how things look. I intend for it to go well.” You can also say in negative situations, “This is going wrong right now but, I know it will all work out right.” Getting yourself upset counters manifesting. Complaining to everyone gives what you don’t want traction and the energy behind it brings more negatives.

It’s hard to stay positive when negatives are in your face, but when you do, you can turn it around quickly. And if the news is good, celebrate it. Let it put your mood into a very good one. Try to get into the habit of thinking before you go to your automatic, typical response. You’ll have a lot more positives in your life if you do.

Below is a video with Michael Lozier, author of many books including The Law of Attraction. He explains about how your response affects the outcome.

See all the posts in my Law of Attraction in Action Series HERE.
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